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Sex & Intimacy / 3:27 PM - Tuesday February 26, 2008

Can Men fake orgasms? Why would anyone want to fake an orgasm? If your partner isn't doing it for yo

Can Men fake orgasms? Why would anyone want to fake an orgasm? If your partner isn't doing it for you, tell them what they need to do differently.

- Asked by mfmcrls, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 36-45, Medical / Dental

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At some point, and occasionally when you need to, yes, it is easy enough for a man to fake an orgasm.

I've not done it much, but a few times -- not more than a dozen times in my life, I guess -- just to call a halt to a process that wasn't going to 'resolve', and I don't want to explain or reassure her that she wasn't doing anything wrong.

What has happened -- I'll explain here, this one time -- is that if you manage to control and restrain your orgasm past the point where you 'should have had it', then sometimes your body can get into a mode of into holding it indefinitely. (Don't ask me how; I just live here.) At that point it can actually be difficult and somewhat painful to attain (too much friction!), and yet it may be possible to retain the erection as long as you're 'using' it. (I'm not bragging here, but I've maintained an erection many times past two hours, and this was in the days before Viagra had even been available.) If you have an erection that long, and you aren't going to have an orgasm, and know it, then the last thing you want to do is maintain that. Trust me on this if you haven't experienced it.

So if you've gotten to that point, and she's already soaked and spent and wants to go to sleep (after two hours? oh, yeah, who wouldn't?), then it's easiest to fake it, cuddle ... and sleep. You don't now want to be awake for the next two more hours explaining that "it's not you, it's me, and it's not a 'problem'". There's always the morning. At least there always has been ...

- Response by regnadkcin, A Father Figure, Male, 56-65, Boston, Artist / Musician / Writer

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HELL no.

Sex for the first time is painful and not very much fun.

- Response by sharonpeters, A Thinker, Female, 26-28, Other Profession

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I think it would be impossible for a man to fake an orgasm. I know when my s/o has one and doesn't. His body acts differently. He can tell when I have one as well. Having sex isn't just about having an orgasm for me but having one makes the stress go away. LOL

- Response by catwoman75, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 29-35, Administrative

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I don't see how a man could, but I've heard some claim they can do it. I'm with you, why fake it?

- Response by rexy67, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 36-45, St.Louis, Retail

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IF HE FAKES AN ORGASEM I`M FIRED HUN???????????

- Response by lynn65, A Trendsetter, Female, 36-45, Self-Employed

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