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| Dating / 4:16 PM - Friday July 03, 2009 |
Should I trust his response?My Boyfriend and I work together for a very small telemarketing co. He is the director of the company, but also runs a specific division. I must say our co has a lot of inter-office relaionships, which is fine at the co. That is how him and I met. We have been together 6mos, and he's a wonderful guy, treats me well. Well last night something was nagging at me, that he was keeping something from me. He's never shown signs of cheating or anything. So I went throughhis phone and found one of his female callers numbers in his phone, who is not a bad looking girl. So I confronted him at like 1am. He wasnt really receptive, however he did tell me the only reason it was in there is because she was out two days (missing) and they needed her to come in, so he called, and its easier to retrieve just stored in the pjone. I know he has other co-workers numbers too,but not really the callers. This morning he apologized, said I was right no need to store it not necessary, wasnt up to anything or trying to be sneaky. I accepted but Im still mad and dont trust him. I feel it was unecessary to store her number, but did so because shes cute to him (I know his tastes). SHOULD I TRUST HIM? pls help - Asked by Female, 22-25 |
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He wasn't hiding anything from you. What he saw as something not even worth mentioning, you took to mean something entirely different. Holding on to something so minor is toxic for your relationship. So what if she's pretty, the fact remains that he is with you. Now, if he can forgive you for going through his phone, you need to forgive him for this and focus on making the relationship work.
- Response by boudoirnovelties, A Thinker, Female, 26-28, Consulting
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HMMM, He was sneaky having an empolyee's number... who was sneaking to find it out? He had a just reason to have the number, what was your justification for checking?
- Response by wallvis, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 66 or older, Retired
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he hasn't given me any reason to trust him, i don't know why you should.
- Response by pizzatroll, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 36-45, Science / Engineering
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Just storing a phone number is no reason to no longer trust him.
- Response by barbb, A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?, Who Cares?
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i would trust him. you shouldn't have even been going through his phone. that is an extreme invasion of privacy and if i were him i would be mad just about that. not to say your lack of faith in him. having a # doesn't seem bad. i would believe him .
- Response by angel325, A Life of the Party, Female, 18-21, Who Cares?
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im wondering if anything like this has happened before. if it hasnt, ask yourself if there is another reason for your distrust in him. this could either be no big deal and completely innocent or a reed flag. if he hasnt cheated then i think you should trust him, but be cautious, if something else happens then you know somethings up. confront him about it but dont accuse him, he will most likely shut down and not give the info you need.
- Response by A Sweet Sarah, Female, 18-21
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Stop being so nosy goddamnit
- Response by seanc, A Guy Critical, Male, 22-25, Financial / Banking
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The issue *trust* does begin with the way you live and treat others and expect the same in return.
- Response by azianchemistry, A Player, Female, 46-55, San Jose, Who Cares?
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