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Been dating a guy 4 mos. Mon. night he sd. he's so in love w/ me...have hardly heard from him since.
Dating / 8:48 PM - Friday July 03, 2009

Been dating a guy 4 mos. Mon. night he sd. he's so in love w/ me...have hardly heard from him since.

We have been friends since we were kids and this is our second time dating. He calls me and texts me all throughout the day and has been for the full 4 months. Monday night he opened up and we had a great convo. He said he loves me with everything in him and always will and wants me in his life forever. He said he wished he'd never let me go the first time and was a fool to let me go back then. I felt so connected to him and we talked for hours. Since then, he has been distant and less playful. Today I have not heard from him at all. What happened?

- Asked by Female, 29-35

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This is quite simple. Ok. When a man puts himself out there, like he did, he in a weird way put his manhood on the line. This isnt bad, but he is probably recooperating from the ordeal. Its not like us to be how he was. And I know exactly what your talking about, and I do the exact same thing.

Best thing to do, is reinforce what was said. Meaning, dont stop here, call him and leave him a message saying you miss him. Text him, Hey lover boy where have you been? He might not be convinced you feel the same way since he poured his guts on the table. Make sure he knows your on the same page, and you will be back to making love like drunken monkeys on a monday night! Good luck!

- Response by majickman1125, A Guy Critical, Male, 29-35, Fitness

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I am just wondering if you said it back to him?

Becuase if you did not then perhaps he is feeling as if you do not feel the same way.

If I were you I would call him, and if you feel the same way he does, express that!

This sounds like a happy ending!

Sam

- Response by samsummer1987, An Engaged Girl, Female, 22-25

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He is probably waiting for you to make a move... Making yourself that available in taxing (I know from experience). He probably figures, like me, that he's done all he can and that it's your turn to be available towards him... Sounds like he could love you; has he pressed for a physical relationship?

- Response by papercut231719, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 18-21

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He might feel a little embarrassed about pouring his heart out to you. When my boyfriend told me he loved me, he got a little distant also. I asked him about it and wanted to know what was going on. We have a very comfortable relationship and talk about everything. He said he was just a little nervous about it because he has never felt this way before. I assured him that I felt the same way as he did and since then things have been absolutely perfect. I'm sure things are totally fine. Just ask him about it. The best way to handle these situations is to be straight forward and just ask him to talk to you about it. Communication is everything! I hope it all works out. =)

- Response by cocainekiss, A Life of the Party, Female, 18-21, Student

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