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Slightly annoyed but maybe not enough to care
Career / 11:31 PM - Wednesday November 18, 2009

slightly annoyed but maybe not enough to care

My old boss has "requested" me as a friend on facebook. I graduated high school with her. We have a mutual best friend. When I worked with/for her, I picked up shifts whenever she called and had forgotten to schedule someone (she was a new manager). She also fired me--cause a lot of stir, as she made up a story that did not add up and caused much speculation among the employees. She even posted a note on the back board saying I had been fired and the reason "why". Facebook friends? Please. Like I want her reading my personal information when we have no current communication and she fired me. What could be some possible reasons for this?

- Asked by A Thinker, Female, 22-25, Other Profession

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She does not know shame. Or she does not have intelligence or common sense. Unbelievable.

- Response by rosybarreto, A Married Girl, Female, 56-65, Teaching

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You've got some baggage going on here. You obviously *do* care - enough to be curious about her reasons, and enough to post on AO asking for other people's opinions.

Why don't you just ignore her? She sounds like a back-stabbing bitch. What other reason does she need to act like one?

- Response by justpassingthru, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Financial / Banking

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"Slightly annoyed, but maybe not enough to care"

Go with your first though...who really cares at this point?

Either ignore or deny her friend request...and let her stew over it. ;)

- Response by mamom04, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 46-55, Seattle

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I am alway suspect of any invitations that SEEM to origniate from the social websites. I have often wondered whether within the program of the sites there is a trigger mailing mechanism that sents out such invites.

BUT, given that she MAY HAVE sent you an invite, I would suspect this person either has not very many friends with which to identify...or thought may perhaps you would not have remembered the problems you had with her at work....or she is somewhat clueless about how her actions affect the lives of others. I would suspect the last to be true. It is not to odd of young adult women, like your friend, to be so aimless in her behavior.

Chaulk this one up to experience...and move on!

Peace

AngllHugnU2

- Response by angllhugnu2, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 46-55, Administrative

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