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| Dating / 5:03 AM - Thursday November 19, 2009 |
Ladies, how important are the words "I love you" to you?What is your philosophy on those 3 words?
- Asked by rashaadreggie, A Hip Hop Guy, Male, 22-25 |
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I think it really doesn't matter who says it first just as long as the feelings are there. In my relationship my boyfriend said it first and it took me by surprise but I felt the same way and said it right back to him. Yes I do think that hearing it is needed for reassurance it means so much to me when I hear my man say it.
- Response by A Creative, Female, 22-25, Administrative
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Absolutely, we all need to hear it from our love ones time to time. I don't think there is a rule who says it first. I think when the time is right and the special moment is there, you say it to your special person. :D I told my man that I am in love with him but I didn't say I LOVE YOU..yet...I have to wait for the right moment.
- Response by allyirls, A Trendsetter, Female, 22-25, New York, Fashion
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The words are very needed. But saying them too soon is not a good thing either. I would rather not hear them, than hear them too soon, and KNOW they are empty words.
- Response by randyl, A Married Girl, Female, 36-45, Los Angeles, Who Cares?
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It is nice to hear.Good when you know he feels the same as you and you are on the same level.
- Response by frenchkiss49, A Thinker, Female, 56-65, Tampa, Who Cares?
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My Joan and I extended it to,
- Response by duggers, A Guy Critical, Male, 66 or older
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Think about it... if both people wait for the other to say it first, it'll never get said. How silly would that be? People just need to use common sense and say what they feel.
- Response by mikehug, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 36-45, Cleveland
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I don't think anyone should say it until it's mutual. The little ones like "bye! love you!" aren't very important to me. I like the serious, meaningful "I love you" when we're alone. Those are really nice!!
- Response by mdb8825, A Thinker, Female, 18-21, Boston, Student
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it is always nice to hear someone tell you that they love you. every time my husband tells me he loves me it reminds me of how much i love him. it fills me with such comfort and happiness. it means a lot to me that he cares enough to say it out loud. even though i know he loves me hearing it means he cares about me deeply and wants me to know how much he loves me.
- Response by suekiss49, A Married Girl, Female, 29-35, Detroit, Who Cares?
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