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Here's the fastball, NO, it's a CHANGE UP!!! STRIKE THREE!!! GTFOH....
Dating / 10:21 AM - Thursday November 19, 2009

Here's the fastball, NO, it's a CHANGE UP!!! STRIKE THREE!!! GTFOH....

Honestly, I actually laugh at my ex tryin' to win me back. It's pathetic it took her so long to realize I wouldn't have EVER hurt her intentionally.

"You're the standard to which I hold any guy now. If they don't measure up to how you treated me, I don't even bother."

*snicker*

Time for coffee talk..... do you still deal with your ex more than cordially??

- Asked by king313, A Hip Hop Guy, Male, 26-28, Detroit, Student

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I don't deal with my Ex's on any level really. We aren't enemies but I don't keep up with them and don't allow them to keep up with me. It's cordial but distant.

Funny enough, my Ex reached out to me a few days ago and tried to get me to meet him so we could talk ...oh he had so much to say and so many apologies. Lol I wasn't mean to him--told him I'm with someone and that was that. He left it alone. Now at the same time- ironically enough- my old mans Ex reached out to him with some long heartfelt ass Email he shared with me. We both laughed. Now he's told her time and again about he and I, blocked her from calling/texting and still she emails this long list of how great he is and how much he means and how lonely she is 3 states away. He wanted to be mean since his ignoring her didn't work, blocking her didn't work, etc but I didn't want him to do that; no need to be mean. The chick has a broken heart but that is what happens when you cheat on good people-they don't stick around. So anyway, at this point he felt she's disrespecting me b/c she won't walk away so he sent a response that was...uhm, less than cordial this time. Hadn't heard from her since... Sometimes cordial doesn't work.

- Response by thottienc, A Career Woman, Female, 29-35, Charlotte, Who Cares?

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Im actually friendly with all my exes. But some women don't realize what they have until it's gone. ...sounds like thats where you ex is.

- Response by phenomenal1woman, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Chicago

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I haven't talked to her since I asked her to get out of my house in Feb. Well she did break in that time, but it was just her yelling at me about how me kicking her out had ruined her life.

- Response by juandontbeg, A Career Man, Male, 29-35, Charlotte, Self-Employed

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I still speak to my ex, no need to be nasty, it wasn't working for me.
Whenever I think I'm missing him he normally says or does something to remind me of why I left.

- Response by misssparkle, A Thinker, Female, 22-25, Military

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I only deal with my X when it comes to the kids. that's it.

- Response by busyb704, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Other Profession

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3 of my exes and I are good friends but that's probably b/c we kinda started off that way.

- Response by poeticlove08, A Thinker, Female, 18-21, Student

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I am cordial with a couple of them but that's a rarity.

- Response by atticus, A Guy Critical, Male, 36-45, Atlanta, Managerial

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