Back to Home

Active Questions

How can I choose between two guys?
Dating / 3:56 PM - Thursday November 19, 2009

How can I choose between two guys?

One is my boyfriend and we get along great but he is a really big flirt. He makes me laugh and i like him but we also don't really talk a lot. The other guy is sweet and wants to ask me out but he starts a lot of drama and smokes (which he lied to me about); two things i don't like. However i think im starting to like him. Which should i choose?

- Asked by katieexobabie, A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?

READ MORE ABOUT THE RATING SYSTEM

Have a screw off. Which ever one does you better wins. What that doesn't make sense? Neither goes going for the bad boy just because he's "exciting".

- Response by newnumbersguy32, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 36-45, Financial / Banking

Rating Received:


Who says you have to choose? Get to know them EACH more before you make a decision. You won't even have to make a decision because it'll become obvious to you which one your heart tells you is your choice. The "other guy" sends up a big red flag... he LIES!!! Get to know your boyfriend more and ask questions that will get him to talk to you. Like don't ask "How was school today?" which requires a one-word answer. Say to him "What did you enjoy most about school today?" At least he has to answer in a sentence and then build from that. That's just a stupid example, but you get the idea.



- Response by mperez7806, A Married Girl, Female, 29-35, Administrative

Rating Received:


As long as you're not in a exclusive/committed relationship you are free as bird. If you're respect yourself AND them they you keep those as dating without physical got involved.

Then time will tell

Peace

- Response by azianchemistry, A Player, Female, 46-55, San Jose, Who Cares?

Rating Received:


I was going to say follow your heart or dont commit to either and date them both. when 2 are vying for your attention why settle for just one? as long as they both know the score about everything.you dont want to cheat

I also liked what mperez had to say about this.

- Response by dreamspinner, A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?, Chicago

Rating Received:


Neither but you should dump your current boyfriend before you do anything with the other guy. Actually, you should dump your boyfriend anyway because the fact that you are even considering dating someone else means that your boyfriend isn't the right guy for you and it's not fair to him or yourself to keep dating him if you're wondering about someone else.

- Response by cherryorlemon, A Thinker, Female, 22-25

Rating Received:

Back to Active Questions