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This sounds like the plot to every chick flick and it kind of makes me sick to my stomach.
Sex & Intimacy / 4:33 PM - Thursday November 19, 2009

This sounds like the plot to every chick flick and it kind of makes me sick to my stomach.

Why do many women think this is ok. I know, men do it too but we don't write movies about it. Here's an idea. Why don't you figure out if you want your current bf/gf before you involve someone else? Maybe I am just old fashioned and I don't know have a value or two but I find this behavior to be repugnant.

- Asked by aron77, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 29-35, Kansas City, Student

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I agree with your point, of course.

Also, why does she feel she needs to choose between two men who are both clearly not right for her? Why doesn't she just break up with her boyfriend and then wait for a man with whom she is compatible? This is not a food choice at a buffet. It's a person.
:-)

- Response by myndseye711, A Hip Hop Girl, Female, Who Cares?, Cali, Farming

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Actually, guys act like this. But when guys do this, we get called dogs. When women do this, it's just something to giggle about with "the girls." Luckily, we don't care.

- Response by istillhatescreennames, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 66 or older

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I think you are one of the nicer guys who actually value a relationship.

There are women like that, too.

Both men and women do this what this girl is doint, though. Some say it's a part of dating. Sometimes it is if both partners are only casually dating (she says her boyfriend is a "really big flirt"), it could be okay.

I think it really depends on how serious the relationship is.
You could never figure out if the person is right for you if you don't date them, but at the same time, you should definitely respect each other and date one-one, too.

You are right about the movie thing, though.

It's a fine balance. =-)


- Response by cutypy5840, A Thinker, Female, 29-35, Medical / Dental

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What behavior? The fact that she has a boyfriend and met another guy who wants to ask her out? She hasn't GONE out with the second guy - she's ASKING us which one she should CHOOSE. Which means she doesn't INTEND to go out with both of them, right?

And I don't understand why your stomach turns over the fact that lots of chicks like "Lifetime Movies." Women produce and watch movies about their romantic trials & tribulations. Men produce and watch porn. Why do MEN think THAT'S OK?

- Response by justpassingthru, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Financial / Banking

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Dating means you getting to know someone. After a period of time if you don't think there is a future then you should start look some where else.

She didn't say she is SEEING the other guy cuz she said he *wants* to ask her out and she wants to make sure if she doesn't make the same mistake twice by asking AO's advice

I don't see anything wrong with her asking.

C'mom guys give her a thump up for being smart and mature.

Peace

- Response by azianchemistry, A Player, Female, 46-55, San Jose, Who Cares?

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