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Boyfriend is turning 21 and wants to go to bars but I cant legally drink..
Dating / 11:26 PM - Thursday November 19, 2009

Boyfriend is turning 21 and wants to go to bars but I cant legally drink..

My boyfriend is turning 21 in two weeks and he wants to celebrate by drinking (obviously) his friends offered to take him out to a few bars and promised him it would be a "memorable b-day." He wants me to come, but the problem is I just turned 20 (hes a year older than me) so I wont be able to do anything except sit around, heck some bars don't even let you in if your not 21. I just found this out kind of last minute and I thought me and him would do something for his birthday but its not looking that way..
I mean I want him to go out and have a good time with his friends but at the same time I feel kind of left out and I really want to see him on his birthday too!
I told him that I didn't feel comfortable going to a bar because I'm not of age and I cannot drink with everyone and that I would just hang with some of my friends for the night while hes out w/ his guy fiends but he got upset about that idea.
What do you all think?
What should I do?

- Asked by Female, 18-21

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The bars will let you in if you tell them that you will be the designated driver. And, what better thing to do for your man, than sacraficing that night for him. Go with him and watch him have fun and be the person that gets him home safe and alive.

Maybe, when you day comes, he will do the same... not drink so that he can watch over YOU. :)

Look at the positive side of this.

- Response by randyl, A Married Girl, Female, 36-45, Los Angeles, Who Cares?

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Spend the day doing something special with him...then in the evening see about going as the designated driver.

- Response by tinydancersmom, A Hippie Chick, Female, 36-45, Who Cares?

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I think yall should celebrate his bday earlier in the day then let him go out with his friends while you go with yours. Or you can find out what bars will let you in beforehand and go to that bar to celebrate his birthday.

- Response by poeticlove08, A Thinker, Female, 18-21, Student

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