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"seduce the mind, the body will follow" agree or not?
Dating / 6:48 AM - Friday November 20, 2009

"seduce the mind, the body will follow" agree or not?

I have a question, what if young man and woman have great chemistry and they accept each others' faults? Is it bound to turn into love later? they don't necessarily talk about rocket science or alike but they do discuss certain things/converse.
My concept of chemistry is that 2 people have great time together, have lots of laughter and do silly things, have amazing intimacy and they feel their compatible with each other.

- Asked by A Thinker, Female, 29-35, Other Profession

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When I first met my current s/o, he was NOT the type I was looking for physically. But we had absolutely wonderful chemistry according to your terms (which I think are accurate ones).

I had such a good time with him MENTALLY that our relationship progressed to the point where I can't imagine being with anyone else. I've never felt so much in love.

So to answer your question--in a lot of cases, I think the answer is yes. It's certainly my answer. I could have done much better physically, but now I look at all the empty, vapid young guys with the beautiful bodies which is what I used to date, and I am so happy to have my current guy--he is so special and I am so lucky to have him.

- Response by electragold21, A Thinker, Female, 29-35, New York, Teaching

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Yes the mind controls the body and if the mind is active and having fun the body will enjoy and stay around for awhile as long the mind is into it. Two minds will have fun better than one to make things work and enjoy each others wants and needs.

- Response by lifestyle, A Father Figure, Male, 56-65, Houston

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That sounds like a great start to any relationship especially being willing to accept eachothers faults.

- Response by hands, A Creative, Male, 36-45, Who Cares?

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Go for it. Just make sure that there is substance underneath once the chemistry wears off. Sometimes the problems with dating someone who is in a different place in their life don't surface until much later.

- Response by mssassychica, A Trendsetter, Female, 29-35, London, Executive

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(Electragold...I agree with you 100%. My story is EXACTLY like yours!) Remember...Love is a choice and it takes a lot of hard work to maintain. It already sounds like you/they love each other or love spending time together...it definately could lead to something more serious.

- Response by zinerva, An Engaged Girl, Female, 29-35, Dallas

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It doesn't matter what they talk about as long as they have fun and as you said, they accept each other with all their faults.
argie

- Response by argie, A Creative, Female, Who Cares?, Who Cares?

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chemistry is the initial feeling you get that draws you to that other person. accepting faults is much much deeper. i probably didnt answer your question

- Response by vancitian, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 22-25, Vancouver, Who Cares?

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chemistry is what gets both parties interested. looks do it a bit but there's some unknown thing that just says.. "HER!" basically.

But I agree. If your into a person mentally. Then everything follows.

- Response by hockeykid666, A Guy Critical, Male, 22-25, Toronto, Student

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