My ex said he can't possibly attend his baby twins memorial service.

Simply because his girlfriend is so upset by it all that he doesn't want to cause her any more stress and upset, by him attending. I mean what planet is this guy on they where his son and daughter as well as mine. And it's only been 4 weeks since they died. I shouted at him and lost it, all he could say is why are you shouting, you don't understand that i am trying so hard to please everyone here. What rot i mean he didn't come to the hospital and see them because he said he couldn't because his girlfriend was to upset and shocked by it, and she didn't want him to leave the house. Ok he did pay half for the service but never helped with the arrangments. Told me to do it by myself because he had to be with his girlfriend because he needed to make things up to her, and it would stress her if he helped. And now he dosen't want to come again because of her. I don't care if he is there or not but i belive he should be there for them. I mean it was his son and daughter for f*ck sake. Why can't he just show up for them. Instead of putting his girlfriend first.

it ended with him saying he needs to think more about her in cass she walks out on him and he doesn't want to loose her. What are these people?.

I went and told as many people as i could about what he had done. Which he had ago at me for. But i don't care because i am so mad with him. Wouldn't you be mad???. How eles could it be handled?.