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| Dating / 6:34 PM - Friday November 20, 2009 |
How agressive are youwhen it comes to putting out the signals to let a man know you are interested? I want to make sure he "gets" it. LOL - Asked by watbuttondoipush, A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?, Financial / Banking |
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Oh, I don't know! Casually ask him if he's seen your knee-pads laying around? He he...
- Response by awsum1, A Life of the Party, Male, Who Cares?, Chicago, Political / Government
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Lol there are times in the past when I think I have been a little too aggressive and scared the guy away. So now, I tend to check my aggressiveness and watch how he responds to certain things. =]
- Response by poeticlove08, A Thinker, Female, 18-21, Student
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I'm usually not agressive at all, and I think I've missed out on a couple of opportunities because of it, when more agreessive women pretty much steamrolled right over me and threw themselves in front of the guy. But, I would rather be myself and flirt in more subtle ways. I like to think that if there's any real chemistry/potential, the guy will pick up on the clues and come talk to me if he's interested. Most of the time, this theory has worked. Sitting in a corner and never looking at or talking to anyone is not the way to go. But a smile, a little eye contact and just being friendly and approachable will usually open the door. Most of the time, any guy who will not want to keep talking to you after that is either paralyzed by shyness or simply not interested.
- Response by uniquelyme2, A Creative, Female, 46-55, Artist / Musician / Writer
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well...I have turned into a bit of a wallflower....BUT I have been very aggressive at times too...I have asked guys out and told them I was interested in them...When I am aware that I like someone I am very upfront and direct.
- Response by meowmeowww, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, San Francisco, Technical
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When it comes to women and 'signals'.. I never pick up on ANYTHING. It sucks. And apparently I get hit on more than I realize... so I need a woman to smack me in the face and tell me... =/
- Response by bananaboat2010, A Guy Critical, Male, 22-25, Medical / Dental
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