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Women want a nice guy that treats them well. BullShit. I've treated women very well. They destroy.
Sex & Intimacy / 12:11 AM - Saturday November 21, 2009

Women want a nice guy that treats them well. BullShit. I've treated women very well. They destroy.

So what's the point if women say they want a nice guy, but then treat him like shit and toss him out like yesterdays trash? It's all a lie. Women are liars and the hypocrisy is they complain of exactly what they do. So whose the liar now?

- Asked by Male, 29-35

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99 % of women are whores and idiots who are to stupid to realize it

- Response by A Creative, Female, 18-21, Student

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alright.....you are that jackass who answered my post and called me a whore even though you have no idea what my life has been.

Buddy- you need intense therapy. Go find a yoga class this weekend as a minimum...

- Response by meowmeowww, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, San Francisco, Technical

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Ouch...Sounds like you have been stung badly. I´m sorry. I promise you not all women are that way. I myself married a nice guy, I´m not saying you are wrong many women say things like i want a nice guy but the go for the jerks in life. Unfortunately the best advice I can give is to hang in there and wait for a good girl who will appreciate you for all you are. *Hugs*

~Anomaly

- Response by anomaly1abnormal, A Hippie Chick, Female, 18-21, Seattle

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You are worth your weight in Entertainment value for this site.

- Response by buffersclone, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 46-55, Los Angeles, Managerial

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I don't want a nice guy. There is no thrill in that for me. I thrive on one-up-manship! Keeps it spicy!

- Response by gumboyaya, A Career Woman, Female, 36-45, Law Enforcement

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Hey I thought I'd answer too since you're giving out really shitty ratings to everyone answering jerks and -1, -2 !!!!!

Here's what happened in your relationships. They did like you a lot and they did try to love you forever and never hurt you but eventually they caved in to sexuality and left your tiny dick!

- Response by pretend, A Thinker, Female, 29-35, Who Cares?

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woman say what sound pleasant, women dont want the jerk or the nice guy, what they want is a MAN which is a combination of the 2, someone who can make them feel good, but at the same time stand their ground and not let them indulge themselves too much.

second note, women are more emotional that rational, you have to know how to push their buttons in your own way, rather than convert to their expectations... if you convert your just another boring guy.

and last note, if you want evidence that girls that girls arnt rational, go to a star bucks and read a newspaper, youll notice half of them who order a low fat mocha, pour a TON down a ton of whipping cream... makes no sense to me.

so yeah dont expect to have a lasting relationship being just the nice guy unless its like an arranged marriage or somethin.

- Response by vancitian, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 22-25, Vancouver, Who Cares?

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Gee your anger and bitterness wouldn't have anything to do with it?? Sorry you have women issues but look to yourself as well and the women you date.. hate to burst your bubble but we are not all like that

- Response by smartblond, A Sweet Sarah, Female, Who Cares?, Charlotte, Self-Employed

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First off, I love my nice guy.
A nice guy and a spineless guy are two very different things. Most guys confuse being a total pushover and being nice for one in the same. We want someone that's nice but willing to stand up to us when we're in the wrong or being too demanding. I'm first to admit that I'll get ridiculous in requests just to see if a guy will do it. Not having boundaries gets boring and could lead to shitty behavior on her part because there aren't consequences. That being said, it took awhile for my guy and I to work out his pushover tendencies. Lucky for him I've always followed the Golden Rule and never did anything hurtful but all of his previous relationships ended when she cheated.

- Response by hpets80, A Thinker, Female, 29-35, St.Louis, Medical / Dental

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Nahh women want an edge where they can be who they are. Are job is a balancing act to give them space but also put them in place as well.

Essentially they want a man that can control them while knowing when not to.

- Response by hockeykid666, A Guy Critical, Male, 22-25, Toronto, Student

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It's funny how the men on here who describe themselves as "nice" seem to be the most bitter women hating men around. That doesn't sound very nice to me.

You need to look inside yourself for your own unhappiness. Perhaps you have a pattern of going out with unavailable women? Perhaps you've been hurt once and based upon one instance you label ALL women as liars?

Seems like you need to work on your attitude. Get therapy, or something. No one is attracted to an angry bitter person.

- Response by An Alternative Girl, Female, 36-45

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Well, Mr. invisble, with that kinda attitude, no wonder you aint gettin any!!!

YOU'VE SET YOURSELF UP TO HAVE ANYONE FAIL IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU, because that is what YOU expect.

Very sad.
Now I see what is behind the anger. Insecurity.

- Response by iowaczechartist, A Trendsetter, Female, Who Cares?, Who Cares?

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I'm sorry you had to deal with these types of women but the truth is that there are some women that actually do love nice men and treat them with the respect, consideration and love that the nice guy deserves...the one thing I learned about nice guys is that they don't finish last, they just find the women that screw them over and make them bitter...just as women get the same things happening to them from bad boys...I hope you find that woman that will treat you right and that will prove to you that not all women are lying, cheating whores...:D

- Response by fastball, A Creative, Female, 36-45, Edmonton, Student

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Bitter much?

- Response by myrtletyrtle, A Cool Mom, Female, 46-55, Who Cares?

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All the women who I have been nice to eventually dumped me. My problem is I can't be nothing but a nice guy.

- Response by troublemaker, A Mr. Married Guy, Male, 26-28, Administrative

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There's some aspect of YOU that is attracting this type of woman into your life. You want validation (for some strange reason) that "women are liars".

So ask yourself why it is that you seem to want or need that Belief to be validated by repeating this pattern over and over again?

Perhaps you've met MANY straight-talking, direct, and completely honest women who scared you shitless---and so you weren't "attracted" to them? I don't know, I'm just guessing.

Or, perhaps you're convinced that you're decent and "nice", when in fact---you act like an immature asshole? Again, just hazarding guesses here. Just offering some possible TRUTH that isn't so palatable to consider.

- Response by ocelotspot, A Trendsetter, Female, Who Cares?, Other Profession

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I guess I am the "liar" because the "nice" (and smart and funny and many other positive attributes) guy who treats me well got me.

Whenever I tell him I love how he treats me, he answers with that he simply treats me the way I treat him.

We treat each other the same pleasantness and respect that we would want for ourselves.

Seems to be working for going on five years now.

So, sorry, I can't really answer your question because that is just not my experience. Of course I could talk about the men who have abused my good character and desire to please and give, but why? They were people who were where they were at during that time and I chose not to stay with them, although sometimes it really, really, hurt.

- Response by kdare, A Creative, Female, 46-55, Buffalo, Other Profession

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Please don't generalize ...maybe you would benefit from some self reflection....or anger therapy.

- Response by 4thebettergetter, A Married Girl, Female, 46-55, Charlotte, Medical / Dental

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