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| Friendship / 12:20 AM - Saturday November 21, 2009 |
Behavior of Women? What do women want?Do women get discouraged or even disgusted with a man if he does not try to get them into bed? I have known her for 20 years of the 26 years she was married. She started a divorce 1 1/2 years ago due to her husband's infidelity, but it is currently hung up. I started talking to her when the divorce started, to try to get her out of depression. We have gone to lunch several times, dinner twice, and she has asked me for advice about her car, house and computer when problems came up, but never did anything about her car or house. The last thing I did recently was to go to her house to fix her crashed computer so she could pay bills, and she treated me to dinner by saying that if I let her pay for dinner now, that I could take her to the most expensive restaurant next time. I do like her a lot and I know that she knows it, but I am 18 years her senior. Since that night 3 weeks ago, she has not responded to any of the letters I sent as I do not like calling her at her job. What gives? - Asked by yrageel12, A Creative, Male, 66 or older, Los Angeles, Retired |
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My man she played you like a fiddle, she got you to go out with her and fix her computer and give marital advice and then goodbye to you, possibly she told her husband about you and he got jealous and they got their freak on again?? You have been played by her and I would just stay away frm trouble because thats all she will be to you for now on!!
- Response by ptawillis, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 46-55, Medical / Dental
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why in the world would you think sex had a THING to do with this.. she is going through a divorce.. she obviously has some issues and baggage right now.. so if she is not responding its time for you to back off and give her some space to work out what she is going through..t his has nothing to do with sex. She just wants to be left alone right now.. SOOOO if you like her, email her, tell her you get she is going through some stuff and to contact you when she is feeling better and let it go.
- Response by smartblond, A Sweet Sarah, Female, Who Cares?, Charlotte, Self-Employed
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she is using you..move on before you waste more money....Im sorry.
- Response by kmf1, A Life of the Party, Female, 46-55, Indianapolis, Administrative
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Is it possible that she is considering reconciliation with her husband? When this happens in reverse, it is the husband that is really unwilling to leave his wife.
- Response by randyl, A Married Girl, Female, 36-45, Los Angeles, Who Cares?
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Your 18 years senior and asking questions about dating a woman who is not divorced yet. The problem is the way you are living your life as a whole my friend. Find women who are more capable of your needs and wants and you wont have to live such a confused life.
- Response by diglebe2, A Guy Critical, Male, 29-35, Self-Employed
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