An broken affair in a marriage

Against my better judgement and carried away by sweet magical words; after 20 years of marriage got into a temptesous affair. The world seemed so wonderful and it was like being young and in love all over again....but after three months or a whirlwind of romance, sweet nothings and days and days of loving...was dumped and everything ended abruptly. Unable to talk about it, with no coping mechanisms; am miserable and wondering if it was worth it at all. A boring and unglamorous marriage seems so much less painful than this...Hope not many have been here and wish not many will get here. Its awful.......when I see my H completely unaware of what I have done, or am going thru.....

Hot Crazy Women you've dated...

Guys, have you ever dated a hot woman who was nuttier than squirrel shit?

If so, what was the craziest thing she did to you and we're you able to break it off before she made you crazy?

I used to date this woman who has serious mental problems. It would take me at least 20 paragraphs to describe all the crazy shit she did during our relationship. The icing on the cake was she threatened to commit suicide if I broke up with her.

So I met up with this guy at a bar. We had not seen each other since New Years...Crazy~

This guy and I were saying goodbye and we hugged twice( I put my hands above his butt in the hug pretty low) and he told me not to wait so long to text him again. I laughed. We talked again and we put our arms around each others waists.. He asked me to hang out on Sunday at 2 with him and his friends to watch the game. I said I wanted to and he said he would call me. I said okay. He asked if I had my coat and if I was okay to drive. He said He was going to round up the guys..(he was the driver of some of them). He walked over to get them and I then I took it as my hint to leave .... So I said goodbye to him as he was walking over to his friends and he said bye but did not look back. I left.. Was I suppose to wait or was that my Q to leave?... I hope I did not take it the wrong way... Did I? Was I rude? Did I leave tooo early?

I just do not know how.

I am a divorced 30 year old. I am attracted to and have had relationships with men, but I have recently begun to find myself very attracted to a woman. But I have never approached a woman before, and I have no idea if she is attracted to me, or any woman for that matter.

What should I do? I am in need of serious advice.

You may be a lover but you ain't no dancer

My gf met with guy she met on fbook. they meet for coffee and she is just now telling me?

She is urban planning student. She has been talking to this guy for a week. She claims they meet for business reasons. She also claims she meet up with him because they have similar friends on facebook.

why does he keep trying..............

I am really trying to understand my exes behavior- We have been split up for over a month now and unforunately still see each other (work), My ex feels the need to constanly tell me about all the women that are "chasing" him and the dates he supposedly had. Why does he feel the need to do this? I have told him to have fun I dont care what he does anymore. So how do I get him to stop?

do you believe in love?

the painful truth about cheating....

is that its a really good way to have to figure out how to get a boot outta your ass.

can i get an amen?

A painful truth about cheating

Most of you aren't going to be happy reading this and you will strongly disagree because you don't want this to be true but......

CHEATING IS NORMAL AND NATURAL BEHAVIOR

In fact, it takes a lot more willpower and strength to go against the natural instinct of cheating. To not cheat is to go against nature.

However, in no way does this condone or encourage cheating, this simply explains cheating.

Afraid of being in a relationship...

I'm 29, independent, very goal oriented, love living life, will do anything for anyone. never been married, with my longest 'relationship' was in the neghborhood of 5 months a few years back. I've dated on a couple other occasions with each lasting a month. Most of my younger life I was focused on me, especially in college. Never dated then. I didnt know then how to be in a relationship. I tried again recently, and I felt great about it for awhile,-actually felt better about it than with any other woman- but became uneasy, uncertain of where it was going, and more or less ended it, not because I wanted to, but because I thought she was wanting to, when actually, that was far from the truth. I love kids, love the idea of having a family, and know because of my line of work and just excitement around children, Ill be a helluva dad. But, I dont think I can be a decent boyfriend much less husband, because I just dont know how to be in a relationship. I dont go hooking up randomly. I know I probably should be well over it, but seeing the many divorces my parents had with each other and others, and with our relationships not being great, Im confused still and scared. I avoided them until my mid 20s, and after what happened in my longest one, I decided I wanted none of it again for a long while. I dont feel I can live up to a womans expectations, as well as be that guy that mom, dad, siblings and friends like....The most recent one I dated hasnt spoken to me in a month now. I wish I couldve been honest before to say Im not sure really how this is supposed to work, and even thought of trying to explain that to her now...but not sure in either case it would make a difference. Besides, it would come across as weak, lacking in self-confidence, etc. none of which is true about myself. just with relationships, and Im certain you women would see that as a big turnoff.

Thoughts, advice?