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Dating / 34 minutes ago Back To Top

Does it ever irritate the crap out of you when the exs or past flings of your current s/o start...

messaging him/her on networking sites he/she gave you the password to telling him/her they still love them and want to talk about things etc or bringing up all the good times in the sack they had?

FYI: I haven't brought this up to the s/o yet and he/she doesn't check the stuff but told me I could. I just found a bunch of stuff tonight that makes me question everything he/she's ever told me not to mention that when asked about someone previously I was told he/she couldn't think of who that particular person was. Now I'm not sure whether to just try to forget about it and not say anything or to bring it up and talk it over with my s/o.

- Asked by Female, 22-25
Dating / 1 hour ago Back To Top

Things that make you go hmmm...

Ever notice how some people think that whatever they do or say is okay as long as they have a lame-ass excuse?

Like... "Oh, that. Well, I was drunk. So it doesn't matter."

WTF is up with that?

- Asked by piscesrising, A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?, Boston, Internet / New Media
Dating / 2 hours ago Back To Top

Y'all I feel mean right now.

I kept getting aggravated with my boyfriend and I feel bad. I keep apologizing but he keeps telling me not to apologize and that its ok. I mean, it wasn't the whole time we were hanging out with our friends. We were actually having a good time. I'm probably over thinking this because I tend to do that. But still. Oh well. I won't be like that next time.

- Asked by mlcoast2, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 18-21
Dating / 2 hours ago Back To Top

Do they not like me or am i just being paranoid?

When i first started at the ranch i thought everybody liked me. on Saturday i was supposed to ride my favorite horse but i couldent because they needed her for a trail so i had to settle for Jake the pony we were riding bareback i haven't done it very often everything was going fine we were walking but then Jake started cantering and i didn't have i good hold on him and i feel off. I walked back up to the front and this guy Tc was on Jake bring him back to me and he helped me get on him. I was just walking around with him and i went up to Brad and he said i thought you said you could ride. and then Jason yelled at me and said ah come on anna you can run him he wont throw you off this time. And brad also makes jokes about me being dumb.

- Asked by carolcarr, A Thinker, Female, 22-25, Tampa
Dating / 3 hours ago Back To Top

I'm very much in love with my boyfriend, yet I find other men extremely attractive. Is this normal?

I'm 21, and I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months now. I've never met a more genuine, honest, attentive and sincere person in my life. I get butterflies everytime I'm around him. That being said, I still find myself looking at other men. I would never do anything about it because I have someone amazing in my life already, but is this normal?

- Asked by Female, 18-21
Dating / 3 hours ago Back To Top

ok girls, what the hell is this all about?

ok so basically i am on a break with this girl living in the same house, we arent seeing other people, we treat each other very nice, it gets better day by day, and i think it came to the point to get back together. on the other hand she claims she loves me and doesnt want me to leave the house but theres no sex?

- Asked by cdjl2005, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 22-25
Dating / 4 hours ago Back To Top

I know everyone has it.....?

We all carry it around....but when is too much baggage too much?

- Asked by drumboi2, A Guy Critical, Male, 56-65, Technical
Dating / 4 hours ago Back To Top

What do you do with a 57 year old guy who is insecure about relationships...

he is just so scared to be hurt again..doesn't think he "deserves someone", is a full time dad to a special needs 14 year old child...Has a stressful job...but has a sweet, caring side to him that makes you want to take care of him too? I have developed strong feelings for him. He just is so hard to get close to..even though he has let me in a little...I want more. How would you all approach this situation?

- Asked by Posty14, A Sportif, Female, 36-45, Who Cares?
Dating / 4 hours ago Back To Top

What do YOU think??

So... met this guy on St. Patty's. I noticed him RIGHT when he walked in the door and couldn't stop looking at him. The 'noticing' was very mutual.

Now, I am not the type to hook-up or even go out too often. I'm not shy or unsocial. Quite the opposite, actually. However, not a party girl. Anywho... His friend was a sad sally and wanted to leave the bar so we exchanged #s. My friends and I came back to my place. About 30 min later he asked if he could come hang out with my friends and I. My friends and sister encouraged it (seeing as it's quite a long time since I've had any sort of 'relations' lol). I said yes and he caught a taxi over to my place. My sisters and friends left, conveniently. He stayed, played with my cat and we talked for 1-2 hours. We did end up hooking up. It was great! Talk about sweet, fun and willing to please! ha ha! Then hung out for a bit longer. He wanted to stay up and talk about everything, kept complimenting me.. However he's heading back to the army about 900 miles away. 8 more months of service. I told him I had no expectations. He seemed to think I should.

He left my place the next morning. He texted later that day to say "Thanks so much for last night. It was wonderful.". I wished him a safe trip back and he texted asking if we could keep in touch. I said sounds good and he never responded.

1. What were his true intentions?

2. Where do you go from here?

- Asked by Female, 22-25
Dating / 4 hours ago Back To Top

HELP! What will make him change his mind?

So my boyfriend and I have been on and off two years now. However we've had a really good relationship and we always end up coming back to eachother. This is one of those times we kinda just ended up hanging out and reconnecting. He says he's scared though because he's never been serious with anyone else in college. We hung out a lot this week, but could only hang out at night when all we did was have sex. Yesterday, he said, "I've been thinking a lot and I just don't feel ready for this, I haven't been serious with anyone else. I thought that maybe if I had a relationship with you, it would be different, but I guess I'm not ready for a relationship." Calmly, I told him we had hardly even spent any time together as a couple, after so long, all we had been doing was sleeping together. I told him that I understood his feelings but he hadn't really given us a real chance. So, after that conversation, we agreed to spend some "couple" time together. I talked to him today and I asked him if he was looking forward to it. He said "I'm looking forward to it and dreading it" and I asked why he was dreading it, and he said, "well, if my feelings end up changing, it'll be great, but if not, it'll be really uncomfortable" ....


My question to you guys is... What can I do to help this? I've been as understanding as possible. He says I have his heart and we both love each other a lot. How do I get rid of his fears? I even told him I'm not looking for "marriage" necessarily so he doesn't feel pressure or whatever.

We're supposed to spend time together tommorow and I'm a little freaked out and I know he is too. There are parts of him that really want this and parts that don't. WTF do I do? How do I act around him? We're naturally goofy and fun together but this could make or break us.

We just drove back to school together and it was a really fun drive. When I got out of the car, I gave him a kiss and said goodbye and told him I had fun and he had a goofy smile and said he had fun too. Things like this make me think we can work :/ but then he says when he's alone, he thinks a lot, and he feels unprepared for this.

Please help :(

- Asked by A Sweet Sarah, Female, 18-21