my husband just left me here at my moms on a friday night...i was bringing my daughter out 2 the car

and he left!!! what an ass,,,he wont answer his phone and i dont know where he is at!!!! OMG im so sad right now and so pissed he just left and left us here...i HATE him so much!!!!

Married,but only one of us(me)thinks so. Its been 2yrs but i still wear wedding band. LOVE or Crazy?

we were married only 17 months... before i dropped her at work, went to pick her up that night and poof! i got a 4 sentence letter with her ring inside, and she was then over the Atlantic on her way back to England, where she's always lived before falling for me. (a brief fall, obviously)

regardless - i said my vows and meant them. and i waited until i was in my late 30's to marry just tio be sure she was 'the one'. she was certainly the one "I" fell for and loved everything about her. and yes, i wish she was still here. guess she didnt care much for New York, America or me.

but to walk around without the band feels wrong. i consider myself still married.
is that immature? i know the likelihood of her returning to me is a million to one, but i vowed to love and cherish her - till death do we part - good times and bad. and no, they don't get any worse than this!

When do most people who still love the other but was dumped - esp. those that truly didnt see it coming. - when did they remove their bands - and am i expected too? or is it every man'd choice if and when he decides too? or is it some sign of crazy? i dont like being asked, or getting those: 'so your married' questions. it isnt for that. in fact i often put my hands in my pockets so i dont have to explain where 'she' is.

I made those vows to her - and i meant them. and a man's word is sometimes all he has, esp. now for me anyways. she considers herslef 're-singled' ive been told - she wont even speak with me. shes acting like an abused spouse! So not who i was or am. never would i do anything like that. but still, she wont even tell me where she is in England, wont call, write, changed her email address. just like I - wee - never existed.

thats her.
but i wasnt made that way. what do most people do?
anyone?


- Lost in Love, at a table for One.

smiles..............

I came downstairs to find Mrs. Mamu sitting at the kitchen table, staring blankly at a half-empty cup of coffee....the kids squabbling loudly in the other room.

"What's wrong, Honey?" I asked.

She said, "I've got morning sickness."

I braced myself against the refrigerator and said, "Oh my god, you're pregnant?"

"No I'm not," she replied, "I'm just damn sick of mornings!"

Honeymoon ideas?

My s/o and I need some honeymoon ideas. We both agree that spending a lot of money isn't something that we want, so far we want to stay in a cabin for a few days that isn't so far from home. The area of our choice is more of a quite country setting which we love, yet there are near by cities. The thing is we can't think of any thing to do as far as activities, we get bored easily, (not with each-other) and come on you can only do it so many times. Anyway, he isn't the hiker type, and I'm not about to go swimming in a nasty lake, nor will I get on any boat of any shape form or fashion. Music is a big part of the place we are thinking about.

What did you do on your honeymoon? Where did you go?

What is the worst fight YOU had with YOUR bf/husband? And YOU thought it was the end of it?

Whatever Happened To Government Cheese?

Remember how good that stuff was? Those five pound blocks of yellow cheese?

After she has an affair with Michael Keaton (see Mr. Mom) and divorces her awfully employed husband what do you think she and the kids will be eating?

Being a stay at home parent/partner sucks. I do not like my s.o dressing up everymorning and going

away. I dont like it. and when he gets home, we barely talk. I am so neglected. I really want to be with someone who has time for me. Always. and take care of me. *sigh* lonley one here. :(

Update: November 06, 2009.
how about dating a millionaire. we both then dont have to work and vacay together. hmm i want that.

I'm not ready to forgive her,what should I do?

After hubby confesed in Jan last yr that he & my younger sis had slept together in 2005-6 each time she visited us on sch holidays I asked her not to visit anymore, stopped communication & almost divorced him.I'm still hurt & feel betrayed by both of them.She hasn't shown any remorse instead she told me "I don't care If u don't want to forgive me my God will, plus I'm family one way or the other,someday u'll need me"

She just called me today,to tell me she has a 3wks old baby girl wth her new man.I have nothing against the innocent baby but the thought of seeing her(the mother),talking to her makes me sick.We haven't really talked since the confession(almost 2yrs now)but it still hurts like it happened yday.In short I'm not ready to forgive her what shld I do or say,shld I do something for her baby or just forget the 2 of them?

A Question for thoes mothers who got tears while giving birth naturally

is there anything that helped you or that you have heard of to help in the healing of a (2nd/3rd degree)tear

not his friend on facebook

the father of my children won't add me as a friend on facebook; n has made up every excuse not to. yet he's added ex's, and his 1st childs mother. what does this mean?!

So I was at this funeral

Ok, so I was at this funeral recently, and it was intense and at a funeral home an at night. The room was warm and stuffy and during one of the eulogies the person giving the eulogy, let out such a painful wail, that you could feel your cells receive his pain on such an intense level. Soon afterwards, someone fainted.

I'm a nurse and two other nurses rushed to this gentleman's side. He had some health issues and 911 was called and he was taken away after what seemed like hours even though it was only a few minutes.

My husband was at the funeral with me.

On the way home, I was processing what I had experienced and sharing about the fellow who fainted (he asked about him) and I took a breath after pouring my heart out and he says, "Looks like Pedro is pitching."

I told him I wasn't finished sharing my story and he said he thought I was finished and he was ready to move on. I told him he was being insensitive and he got so angry with me.

I still think he was being insensitive. My feelings were very hurt.

What do you think?