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Age Range: 36-45

City: St.Louis

Commitment: Taken

Sexuality: Heterosexual

Occupation: Other Profession

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Married Life / 2:21 PM - Wednesday November 04, 2009

Why do people do this.....

It drives me freaking crazy......she has a good question....but without knowing what exactly he did that was so bad....how can we answer the question......

- POP'd by lab01, A Father Figure, Male, 36-45, St.Louis, Other Profession

My boyfriend did something to me that I totally found awful

Its not a deal breaker or even the worst thing that he could have done but it was a bad thing to do and for that he is in a lot of trouble with me.
We stay together so I have not made him dinner, asked him about work, been friendly, cute or affectionate. I am mad at him so its not a game playing thing Im speaking to him but ONLY when necessary. Last night he tried to get some sex, and I told him NO, and exactly why I wouldnt do it. He said he understood and then we just went to sleep.
Purely out of curiosity do you think he didn't push for the sex becuase he realizes how much he screwed up?

Update: November 04, 2009.
Thanks guys just wanted your thoughts. Not giving him sex is not a punishment, his crime has turned me off. Im mad at him because he lied to me, when we 1st met I asked him had he EVER had any STD's he said no. Monday he was talking and it slipped out that he had had one when he was about 17. The fact that he lied about something that is important makes me mad, we been together 3 years so its a 3 yr old lie. He has made a dr's appointment (although I know for a fact everything is fine) and he will not get any until he can show me that he is clean, (I know that he is though because I have been checked everytime I go for my annual visit) thats what my condition would have been 3 years ago so thats what it is now. I think its fair. Better safe then sorry.

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