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I live in a large city and have tried to join groups of interest but nothing seems to be working, i just want some good friends to do stuff with movies dinner just to talk with but i find the city hard to make friends in if you are not going bar hoppingUpdate: November 07, 2009.thanks for all the good advice i am doing alot of those things now but so far i have not clicked with anyone that i could call a best friend so i'll still be looking