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Sex & Intimacy / 6 hours ago Back To Top

Women want a nice guy that treats them well. BullShit. I've treated women very well. They destroy.

So what's the point if women say they want a nice guy, but then treat him like shit and toss him out like yesterdays trash? It's all a lie. Women are liars and the hypocrisy is they complain of exactly what they do. So whose the liar now?

- Asked by Male, 36-45
Sex & Intimacy / 6 hours ago Back To Top

Women say men lie. Yet I was told,"I will never leave you, I love you."-she left. So whose the liar?

"I'd never do that to you." "She was not worthy of you. It will never be like that between us." Now she's doing someone else. Yet I was called a liar when I did not lie. WTF? How are we ever supposed to trust any woman anymore? Seems like the majority act like this that I see and that anyone I know is around. Women have no values or in the very least lie about them.

- Asked by Male, 36-45
Sex & Intimacy / 6 hours ago Back To Top

Do you think they did something to my food?

Last weekend I ordered chineese and was short on money so I gave the guy a 2 dollar tip, the total order was 24 dollars. I did feel really bad, however today I ordered again and when the guy came to deliver my food I gave him a 5 dollar tip. Yet obviously the food was already done at that point. I tried eating but it tasted gross, it literally tasted like urine and poop. Maybe they were just having an off day, or they remembered this address didn't tip well, what do you think? I cannot even finish the food :C

- Asked by Female, 18-21
Sex & Intimacy / 6 hours ago Back To Top

Where To Buy Sex Toys

So...this might be silly but I would feel too uncomfortable to walk into a store to buy a vibrator.

Any women (or men with suggestions) know of any online places I could get one from that will deliver?

- Asked by Female, 22-25
Sex & Intimacy / 6 hours ago Back To Top

Update!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ok so i started this job a few months ago and i met this guy. um i never really thought of him as MY boyfriend material but he was nice. any way i realize that hes been talking to me alot lately and when i got sick a few days ago he REALLY uped his game and started asking me direct questions like where i thought he was from and how old i think he is. I'v been playing along and flirting back with him BUT i just dont know. Hes really nice and i dont want to hurt him. I have alot of low esteem and i dont really think alot of myself. Im just worried that hes one of those guys that will see that in me and try to control me. Iv always worried about guys contolling me. To be honest he hasnt done anything to give me doubts or any reason that he might do the things im thinking. And before any of you go into the work and relationship thing i hope to leave the job soon so that is a non issue. I just want to know if u guys think i should give him a chance.

This was a preview for those who didnt see my last post. So the guy that i talked about before has since distansed himself from me. He asked me if i wanted a boyfriend a few days ago and i was flustered and said no and the reason i gave was that i wasnt in a right place. He came back a few minutes and we talk and laughed so i thought it was all good. Big mistake. Now he hardly comes to my department unless he has to. I mean the few times he's here he talks to me but not like before. Now i miss talking to him and i miss his jokes. I dont know what to do. And the worst thing is i dont know if i miss him for HIM or just the chance to be with somebody, ANYBODY. (its been a while since i last dated). Im confused please help

- Asked by A Thinker, Female, 22-25
Sex & Intimacy / 7 hours ago Back To Top

Mostly all women and a lot of men agree that taking advantage of a woman who is passed out or

greatly under the influence to where she cannot make an appropriate decison is wrong and in a lot of cases considered rape. So my question is why are people so ok with the idea that most men go to bars simply because they know there will be women there who have been drinking and that they can score with, whom they never could of if they hadn't been drinking, why is this excepted? What difference is it finding a drunk girl in a back bedroom at a party or at a bar?

- Asked by Male, 18-21
Sex & Intimacy / 7 hours ago Back To Top

What's the general consensus out there about: Fling.com¿

Bcuz, I'm starting to get the feeling that it's a scam...

Update: November 21, 2009.
Apologies to all... I'v just noticed my account profile says I'm female... I'm a bloke; sorry about that... Cheers for ur response...

- Asked by socratease888, A Hippie Chick, Female, 29-35, Melbourne, Who Cares?
Sex & Intimacy / 9 hours ago Back To Top

I can orgasm during oral but not when my boyfriends inside me, and it takes nearly an hour. help?

I can only orgasm when my boyfriend is giving me oral, but not when his finger is inside of me. This could potentially become problematic when we decide to have sex and i cant orgasm when hes inside. It also takes me nearly an hour to orgasm. Its exhausting!! any help?

- Asked by sexycani42508, A Thinker, Female, 18-21
Sex & Intimacy / 10 hours ago Back To Top

A Woman's Ultimate Fantasy...

In a recent on-line poll 38,562 men across the country were asked to identify a woman's ultimate fantasy.

98.8% of the respondents said that a woman's ultimate fantasy is to have two men at once.

While this has been verified by a recent sociological study, it appears that most men do not realize that in this fantasy, one man is cooking and the other is cleaning.

- Asked by themamu, A Guy Critical, Male, 56-65, Consulting
Sex & Intimacy / 10 hours ago Back To Top

Have you ever felt your partner's sexual pleasure was your "job"?

Lately I've been having this problem of not being in the mood for sex. After ruling out the usual reasons why this could be happening, I started to think and ended up with an idea, or rather a feeling, I don't like at all.

Turns out that some part of my brain considers sex something like a chore. Although, not sex exactly. It's my active role in sex that seems to be the problem. It's kind of hard to explain... I honestly enjoy what I do to her during foreplay. The same goes for sex and cuddling afterward. But lately (been together for 8 months now) I've been starting to feel like it's my duty to first get her all prepped and ready for sex, then give her a mind-blowing experience and finally cuddle her to sleep or whatever we do after. In retrospect, same thing happened with my ex, but since she seemed to not enjoy sex at all (current gf clearly does), I simply thought that was the reason and moved on. Now I obviously don't want to do this again, so I'm turning to all of you for advice. And I probably should add that this started happening once everything started to become really serious.

Did you ever have the feeling it's "your job" to make your partner have the time of their life every time? Did it make you lose interest in sex? What did you do to get rid of this feeling?

Update: November 20, 2009.
Thanks for all your advice and opinions so far, but some answers make me think I wasn't completely clear. I DO give it my best and she DOES enjoy it. She also DOES reciprocate gladly and fully. It's not one-sided. I thought I was clear when I said that I do sincerely enjoy everything we do. 30 min of foreplay seems the average length and I don't mind it. Usually our whole sex-thing takes from 1-2hrs. Can't remember the last time it was under one hour. And obviously I also like that It's simply the feeling that it's not supposed to feel like something you have to do but something you want to do. The problem is here: If we have a quickie I'll start getting the feeling that I'm just using her even though I'll rationally know it's not true. THAT'S what I wanna get rid of.

- Asked by windlord, A Guy Critical, Male, 22-25, Student