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Sex & Intimacy / 1 day ago Back To Top

Name that micro manager.

Let's see.
My sister.
My sister.
Yes and my sister.
I wish there was a way to get away from her, but unfortunately as they say, you cannot choose your relatives. I bite my tongue, I try to do my own thing, but still she inches her way into a situation and has to control, has to one-up, has to be the queen.
Now she is trying to control my mothers passing.
She is controlling every aspect of the hospice workers trying to do their job.
She is controlling the assisted living folks who are trying to make a peaceful place for my mom to be.
Micro managers are sad little people.
Rant over.
Thanks for listening.

- Asked by stevieann, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 46-55, Who Cares?
Sex & Intimacy / 1 day ago Back To Top

This sounds like the plot to every chick flick and it kind of makes me sick to my stomach.

Why do many women think this is ok. I know, men do it too but we don't write movies about it. Here's an idea. Why don't you figure out if you want your current bf/gf before you involve someone else? Maybe I am just old fashioned and I don't know have a value or two but I find this behavior to be repugnant.

- POP'd by aron77, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 29-35, Kansas City, Student

How can I choose between two guys?

One is my boyfriend and we get along great but he is a really big flirt. He makes me laugh and i like him but we also don't really talk a lot. The other guy is sweet and wants to ask me out but he starts a lot of drama and smokes (which he lied to me about); two things i don't like. However i think im starting to like him. Which should i choose?

- Asked by katieexobabie, A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?
Sex & Intimacy / 1 day ago Back To Top

You know what sucks....

When your significant other promises they will be over around 9:30. And when they don't show up and don't answer phone calls or text messages, around 11 you go over to their place to see if they're okay.
They don't have a door bell and they live in a shared housing unit, so you have to peek in their window to see if they are home. And when you do, you see them cuddled up with another person.
When you knock on the window and they come out to tell you that part of them wants to be with you and the other part doesn't and they don't know why they lied, you start crying. And they tell you that "I have company, you need to leave." And shut the door in your face.

Yeah. It really kind of sucks. =[

- Asked by beantownchica34, A Hip Hop Girl, Female, 18-21, Who Cares?
Sex & Intimacy / 1 day ago Back To Top

The Tunnel..............

What was the last scary thing you did?

I did something a little scary today. I did the tunnel. I've been dreading this for a while but when going from mi casa to General Von Paulus' house I have to pass under I-93. And I have the choice of either going out of my way quite a bit or crossing two lanes of 50 MPH traffic to get into a 500 foot long tunnel that drops and goes back up 24 feet. And you come out in between four lanes of traffic still doing the same speed. Then you have to cross to the right across three because of the onramp coming in.

It's a total rush.

How was your day?

Update: November 20, 2009.
I was on my bike with a backpack full of laundry when I did this.

- Asked by llafsroh, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 36-45, Boston, Science / Engineering
Sex & Intimacy / 1 day ago Back To Top

Date planning for couples not living together?

I'm just curious, for those of you who are in a relationship that's not new (say 6 months or longer) but are not at the point of living together, how far in advance to you typically make weekend plans?

Lately i've been a bit frustarted because my boyfriend never knows what he's doing on the weekends so I'd like to make plans, but then I feel bad if something comes up where we would normally do it together (he's going to a party, etc). Often I feel bad for not going when he tells me, but I will have gone ahead and planned something else.

I don't want to nag at him mid-week all the time to question him on this - and typically what I"d otherwise plan likely wouldn't interest him (girls nights, movies, etc - he isn't into that).

How does it work in your relationship? Or has anyone dealt with a similar situation?

- Asked by Female, 22-25
Sex & Intimacy / 1 day ago Back To Top

I alway masturbate on my stomach, but I think this is why I cant orgasm on my back/oral sex. Help!

I think the maturbation on your stomach is more of a sexual simulation, and now, no matter how hard I try, I cannot orgasm from regular on my back masturbation or from oral sex from my boyfriend. I know its not my boyfriends skills because I have never orgasmed my entire life from oral. Did I ruin being able to orgasm those other ways by masturbating on my stomach??!?! Help!

- Asked by Female, 22-25
Sex & Intimacy / 1 day ago Back To Top

Do I still wait after five years of off and on's?

I have been with "P" for five years off and on. And during that time, he's had girlfriends and I've had boyfriends...but now we're the closest we've ever been (spending so much time together, really opening up to each other,trying to trust each other, and being intimate) but he still chooses to call me his "friend" around my family and our mutual friends and isn't willing to finally take things further after all these years. He says its because his last girlfriend "damaged him" but anything can happen in time. With me being the impatient type and feels that i've somewhat "waited" and often made him a priority in my life for five long years that it's time for us to finally see if what held us together all these years really meant anything and finally be exclusive, also I dont want to be considered "just a friend" anymore...
should I just walk away from this situation and look for what i want somewhere else or wait for him ...even though i might just be waiting in vain?
Any advise would be greatly appreciated! ;o)

- Asked by A Sweet Sarah, Female, 29-35, Miami, Teaching
Sex & Intimacy / 1 day ago Back To Top

Pussy's great but is it worth it to the single men?

Sometimes I have to ask myself if it's worth all the aggravation and risks of disease and parenthood.

- Asked by romeox, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 29-35, Indianapolis
Sex & Intimacy / 1 day ago Back To Top

Someone, please explain this to me.

how do you have on line sex with someone???

- POP'd by donnapark62, A Player, Female, 36-45, Who Cares?

i want to try the on line sex...

just want to experience it.

- Asked by Female, 26-28
Sex & Intimacy / 1 day ago Back To Top

Why do guys cum really fast when im on top?

I love being on top when me and my man are at it. The problem is he cums really quick when im not completely satisisfied. Why does that happen i dont understand. It sometimes irritates me

- Asked by A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?, San Antonio, Who Cares?