Desperate house wives.

I am Linet personality- professional, hard worker, stand by people at critical times. Sounds bossy but I have very kind heart and conscious (most of the time)

But in private I can be silly, funny, messy as Suzan.

I look better than Linet, of course I cannot compare to Suzan great body.
I am in noway like the other three wives.

Now the question is: why I cannot find a man??

Men which of the 5 wives would you chose?
Women which one you are??

with a song in your heart......

Do you and your S/O have a song that is....

"your song"......

Mrs. Mamu and I think of a song written by Paul Williams as our song....

....."I won't last a day without you"

What if you are afraid because you do see signs of what you think is a cheating partner?

My details are, my friend/lover/signif partner-whatever you want to call him, has always ben known to his family and friends as a player/womanizer. He claims to this day hes never been with anyone else, but his secretiveness makes me leary. He has a phone he claims is a work phone, he is always gone to play cards w/the fellas. He wont be seen with me in public, but we do live together. I tries really hard at times to let me know where he is and what he is doing, but because of my past with my X cheating on me, and then his past as well, i have a hard time accepting that he is being faithful. How can you just let your guard down and relax? This is probably the worse thing going on in my life, it makes me mad, scared, leary, paranoid. And to top it off, I may be running him away, because I am constatntly checking up on him and trying to verify his story, only to call him a liar in the end. HELP!!!

Update: November 18, 2009.
Lmark, that was really cute and funny; thanks. However, we have only been on one or two dates, in the almost year we have been together. And that was at the beginning of our dating. I have met his friends, but they dont go on dates with us, they came to my house for a cook out, or I have met them when they come to our current house. I have also met almost all of his family, so I dont think its the psycho thing....any more clever responses?

Update: November 18, 2009.
Thank you all so much for your words of wisdom. Although one or two a little harsh, I appreciate your honesty. To answer some questions, Im not sure 'he wont be seen with me in public', I feel more like thats how I feel because we never go anywhere together. Im not only with him because of my love for him, but his daughters as well. They are in need of direction from a woman, and they have made me realize how much i miss motherhood. As far as the phone goes, I have gone thru it and it is a work phone, I have also gone thru the phone we share on a plan and never run across anything that I shouldnt have; except porn, and I dont have a problem with that. Like my kids and best friend say, Im looking for something that doesnt seem to be there. Although he plays cards a lot, he is also home by 9pm, and is home by 6pm almost every day; and hasnt slept away from home. Nonetheless, he has been a womanizer up to the (so he says) point we met, but he also says Im the only woman he wants, because I am the full pkg. I hope I addressed everything everyone said. Thanks again, look forward to reading your responses, if you so choose to rerespond.

The best way to deal with financial issues for a newly married,husband filed bankruptcy b4 marriage.

We have a prenup to deal with separate assets and liabilities due to my Chapter 13 bankruptcy I filed prior to marriage. I had to take a job in another state and we have a commuter marriage for a least a year. The problem for me is I struggle with my cash flow because I fly "home" every week. My new wife has a 10 year old son and due to unforeseen circumstances(he broke his leg), she has been unable (the both of them) to visit me.
In the meantime, my wife plans trips for her birthday and spring break with her son. I know it is not her fault that I had to file bankruptcy before we were married, but how can I discuss my feelings of being left out of my new family's activities because of my financial situation? When and how do we merge our financial lives so that she does not suffer for my past and I am not "left out" and feel belittle because of it?

Can you sleep w/o your s/o?

Like if my husband falls asleep on the sofa bed and I'm in our room I can go a couple of hours w/o him then I get on the sofa bed with him. Or if he wants to go to bed he tells me to "lay right" so he can get comfortable. Or if I'm not home before he wants to go to bed he'll whine to me on the phone cause he wants to go to bed.

wisdom..............

The real art of conversation is not only to say the right thing at the right time......

....but also to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the most tempting moment.

Why is it that my ex is still wanting to be with me after being separated for a little over 2 years?

He has pushed me away for the 29 years we were together. Mind you, we got along great as friends but as lovers - no way! He told me that was only in the movies. To him sex was only when he wanted it and how he wanted it - basically for me to satisfy him 3/4 of the time. I did catch him fooling around on me more than once and he would deny it every time. Hurt me so much! I also caught him in the act of rubbing a guy after he was passed out. Wow! Freaked me out when I got out of bed to see if he was OK -he told me to go back to bed. We have been great friends for 29 years, had lots of fun together and dreams and he tells me he still loves me even though I am still with another guy for a little over 2 years. This guy I am with I right now would sooner be on my own but I am left with all the finances and he is helping me. He tells me he loves me everyday and more than once a day. But I still have stronger feelings for my ex and I cannot say I love you back to my guy friend. I suppose I haven't had enough time alone. And I have been debating whether to go back to my ex. I have let him back in the marital home 3 times and each time it has not worked. He would say something to get me going. Knows how to push my buttons. But yet, I still feel that I should go back to him as he says he is more comfortable with me than anyone else and he cannot go anywhere on his own. He tells me he still loves me and he is not well and I am feeling guilty. I feel that I should try and sell out if I can and purchase a smaller home and have him move back in with me. My friend, though, will be very upset - we work at the same place and he tells me that he cannot live without me. I am so mixed up and confused and counsellors? No

How would you know if your man isn't attracted to you,

So an old friend of mine is in town...

taking care of some business for his mom. The other night a group of us got together and were out for a bite to eat and to catch up becasue we all hadn't seen him in a while. He doesn't live here anymore.
Anyway while we are at dinner his phone began to ring he looked at it and saw that it was a text from his wife. He replied to her text but she continued to text him the whole time we were at the table.She didn't come with him on this trip.
Finally he excused himself and called her....when he came back to sit down he said to us "we have been married for 20 years have 4 kids and she still trips like this when I'm not in her face".
They have a good life and are doing rather well...would you think she is just needy or doesn't trust him?

How will you know when you start getting bored of your husband,or when your husband gets bored from

you.What husbands do when there have had enough,and can't take it anymore.