Help sex drive is starting to go down hill. Help.

Im peri menopausal and have a great sex partner. not in the mood as much and sex turns me off sometimes. Any suggestions?
Thanks in advance.

Can't believe I am posting this, but its bugging me

Okay I know how silly this sounds I am almost tempted to post this anon but i have not ever done that so I am not going to start now.

I have a best friend and we have been friends for 15 years.. we are thicker then thieves.. lately she has been having some stresses at work and some family issues.. etc.... so we have had a few girls days.. etc.. we also rarely argue.. in fact the last disagreement we had was about 10 years ago. We are very up front and very much alike.

As many of you know the movie New Moon came out today.. she wanted to see it so we made plans to go next Saturday. I am not a fan of crowded theaters but it was the only day she had.. no big deal.

I had a free day today so I went to the movie alone this morning. (we both read the books we know how it ends.. etc) without the crowd , figuring I would want to see it again with her (and I do and am looking forward to it and spending time with her)


I mentioned it to her later in the day that I went and couldn't' want to go again she was totally LIVID that I went. It seemed a bit over the top for her and I am suprised by her reaction.. Again this could be just a reaction to some of the stress issues she has going on) however she has not returned my texts or calls and I told her I was sorry and had no idea she felt so strongly about it.

I didn't do it to hurt her and it seems so minor and almost stupid to even ask this.

But I can't change it and honestly did not think it was that big a deal. (with our schedules if the situation were reversed I would have been fine with it, it's just a movie.)

I guess I am asking what your take is on this.. sorry its so long but this is really confusing to me. I just needed to get this off my chest. I feel bad for upsetting her. I had no idea.. this is so odd. Thanks!

Update: November 21, 2009.
Thanks again for all the posts.. just to point out she is normally NOT like this at all, very out of the norm for her, she is very level headed so I am sure it will blow over but I still feel bad for hurting someone I love, even if it is minor

Update: November 21, 2009.
Thanks Quicksilvr you are right.. ever since my eye surgerys I have no side vision (like a horse with blinders) but my hearing is amazing so I can HEAR you but can't see you so crowds tend to bug me. I thought It would be distracting to see it in a crowd which is one of the reasons I went alone today. Meow.. totally see your point.. but we are pretty open and it seems like an over the top reaction however as I said she has some stuff going on.. maybe it was just one more thing.. thanks you guys for the advice

Behavior of Women? What do women want?

Do women get discouraged or even disgusted with a man if he does not try to get them into bed? I have known her for 20 years of the 26 years she was married. She started a divorce 1 1/2 years ago due to her husband's infidelity, but it is currently hung up. I started talking to her when the divorce started, to try to get her out of depression. We have gone to lunch several times, dinner twice, and she has asked me for advice about her car, house and computer when problems came up, but never did anything about her car or house. The last thing I did recently was to go to her house to fix her crashed computer so she could pay bills, and she treated me to dinner by saying that if I let her pay for dinner now, that I could take her to the most expensive restaurant next time. I do like her a lot and I know that she knows it, but I am 18 years her senior. Since that night 3 weeks ago, she has not responded to any of the letters I sent as I do not like calling her at her job. What gives?

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My friend is pregnant. How do I properly support her, when no one else will?

I just go back from vacation to find out that one of my friends is pregnant. We aren't like best friends, but we still talk and everything. Her best friends aren't really being supportive and even though her and I have our differences every once and a while, I still want to support, because if I was in that situation I would want to be supported. Everyone in school knows, and she is only 16. I don't know how to help her.

So what do you think about Wendy and her remarks

I spoke to Wendy tonight on the phone. During the course of the conversation I said "I am the type of person that sees the glass overflowing, what type are you - negative or positive" and Wendy replied "Negative because of everything that has happened to me"

When Wendy and I were talking about my mom she said "Your mom may be upset that she is up there in years and knows she does not have much time left to live, I hope she does live a long time, but ain't going to happen"

I told Wendy that due to the fact I have no more room to store my clothes I am not going to shop for clothes at the 99 cent store. But when we were talking I told Wendy that today I decided to check out the 99 cent store to see the clothes and saw they are getting less and less in and what they have is awful. She said to me "I bet if you saw something you would have purchased it" I told her "Maybe" And she said "I dont think you will hold yourself to the deal that you wont shop there for clothes, if you do the deal with yourself will only last an hour, that is why I think instead of buying 10 buy 3". But I really cannot buy any more as much as I want to.

So what do you think about the above?

Is your partner your best friend or do you have another also, instead of, etc?

My ex-best friend requested to add me to her LinkedIn network. I know this is trivial but...

I know this is trivial but we stopped being "best friends" due to various reasons. I wanted to remain friends but with less "responsibilities" to her...if you get what I mean. I do know one thing though, she has had "best friends" drop her more than once in her past, so I know it was hard on her. But I don't regret my decision.

She is the one who decided to avoid me and not even say hi and then ultimately to "unfriend" me on Facebook. Hey, if it's her choice, I'm not going to stop her, I can only comply and move on completely. (yes, I see the trivial-ness of all this, but please refrain from answering about that!)

I don't understand why she would want to add me to her network on LinkedIn? Snoop on me? Show me up? If we aren't even on a small talk level, why would we network? It's not like it benefits us because we have the same network just not each other.

I archived her request (thankfully Linkedin has that function) but what would you do in this situation?

Where have all the flowers gone, ermmmm - I mean PEOPLE?

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roll call...


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Update: November 20, 2009.
geeezeeee louise O_0 !!!!! Where the Hell have ALL you People been hiding ?? I thought I was here all by my *lil self :( Tks for sneaking out of *Your Corners ;) HaHa

Ladies - do you kiss and tell about your same sex adventures?

Any tails to tell?