Why do people tell you not to take rejection by another personally?

An Eye for An Eye? Yay or Nay

When YOU find out that someone on this site has Banned YOU...honestly, don't you think it's fair to ban them back?

I sure as Heck do. Why? I don't want the dimwits responding to my Q's and running off at the mouth about some BS. Fair enough don't you think?

**I see comments all the time on the board, directed to a particular person that has responded to a person that THEY have banned, and the person says don't respond to ME until YOU un-ban me.

As far as the Karma Issue, sometimes Karma takes too long, ijs

**I like to take care of issues at hand when they happen. I am so not afraid of anyone on this site. How about you?

Thanks in advance as always :)
~wolfie

Update: November 19, 2009.
oh my.....format is changed a TAD .. I could NOT find the Respond to All, but as U can see I finally did ;) well, I got alot more responses than I expected, and I Thank Everyone who participated *I respect everyone's Personal View on this issue* as it is a To Each Our Own as to How WE Feel about this .. I Personally Am Not Going to Set *ME* Up for an Attack - as we all know that some here are Very Malicious with their ATTACKS in cognito....ijs Tks Again Everyone !!!!! :D

Outnumbered...

WHY is it that the shitstains and douchebags always seem to outnumber the good and decent amongst us?

Just askin'...

Are you comfortable alone, or do you prefer to have people around?

My friend got really angry about some advice I gave her and I want to know who you think is right.

She met a guy in a bar and slept with him the next time they met up. That was two months ago. He saw her maybe once a twice a week, if that. A lot of the time he didn't return her calls or texts and then about a week ago her ignored her completely until yesterday when he just text to say hi. She seems to think they had a relationship even though he called her his girlfriend for the first time just about two weeks ago. I and other friends told her to forget about this guy as he clearly doesn't make time for her, but she kept on defending him saying that he was just busy. She has decided to break up with him now, after he has ignored her for nearly a week, but said she wanted to talk to him one last time to ask him why he treated her like that, for closure. I told her not to, that there wasn't any such thing as closure, and he wouldn't tell her the truth anyway. She got really angry with me, saying that she was an adult capable of making her own decisions and didn't need anyone telling her what to do. I'm just upset because friends give other friends advice and I'm tired of constantly being there for her when she gets her heart broken by guys she meets in bars and clubs and sleeps with on the first or second date who don't take her seriously.

Does Love really Conquer money?

Don't you draw the Queen of Diamonds, boy, she'll beat you if she's able. You know the Queen of Hearts is always your best bet." -- The Eagles, from the song, "Desparado," reminding us that love conquers money every time.

A*ology Roll Call!!!!!!!

Good morning everyone *comes in with a pot of coffee* A bit cloudy and drizzly, not too much though today on the east coast. Getting excited about Thanksgiving. Hope everyone has a good day. Stuff could be better for me, but I probably shouldn't complain.

Have a great day everyone! Remember to tell that special someone just how special they are.

a russian cougar winked at me on a dating website..

she descbribes herself as 'athletic and toned' but she has a lot of clothing on and its hard to tell what her body looks like. also she claims to be a certain age but i have found when they approach 40 and over, lying about age is very common.

although she may be telling the truth, i just hate it when you have been chatting nicely for 45 minutes and then they 'unload' their real age on you.

yes, i could meet her, be nice and buy her drinks or even a fancy dinner to find out the truth..but is there any easier way?

how do i qualify her before meeting? ask her for mo pix and is there a nice way of age verification? how do i get her last name?? please help....

Thgis Morning, I ask you all . . . . . . .

...to please include in your prayers or thoughts, a friend of mine, Jimmy Whitlock, down in Tennessee.

He's had previous battles with cancer of the everything, and he thought he had it beat, but recently found out that, not only has it come back, but it's spread.... and now, he can't even do more chemo, since the first round pretty well fucked his liver and kidneys....

He's not in a great place, emotionally, as one might figure... he's recently divorced and can't see his one and only baby child, and this man is, genuinely, one of the most lighthearted, loving and giving people I've ever been priviliged to know in my life.

Please offer wishes for him to receive peace, strength and restoration of his health, that he may continue to do all such good works as has been prepared for him to walk in.


....and thanks....

Do you remember.....

What was the first 45/Album/CD you ever bought for yourself?.........

Me: Elvis Presley....Blue Hawaii.....sigh, I know I'm dating myself.....