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Dating / 10 hours ago Back To Top

Your opinion about the post date text

went on a date with a guy. The next day I sent him a text telling him I had a nice time and hoping that he got home safely.

A guy pal of mine said the "got home safely" part was very mommyish and not wlecomed.

In some ways I view the remark as a social convention (like asking how are you and not expecting to get anything more detailed than "Fine"). But just in case, I thought I would ask.

In general, are texts of this type welcomed at all.

Update: November 21, 2009.
Thanks for responding. What do you do post date wise when you had a good time and would like to see the person again?

- Asked by A Thinker, Female, 29-35, London, Executive
Dating / 10 hours ago Back To Top

How agressive are you

when it comes to putting out the signals to let a man know you are interested? I want to make sure he "gets" it. LOL

- Asked by watbuttondoipush, An Alternative Girl, Female, Who Cares?, Financial / Banking
Dating / 11 hours ago Back To Top

Is he just not that into me?

I like this guy and he seems to like me too, we seem to have quite a bit in common an we're around the same age, but he doesn't want to date me incase it doesn't work out, as he is very close with my parents and doesn't want to jeopardise his friendship with them.

Would it be correct of me to assume he just isn't that interested in me? I mean, he obviously doesn't think I'm worth the risk and doesn't have much hope for us as a couple... right?

- Asked by A Sweet Sarah, Female, 18-21, Student
Dating / 11 hours ago Back To Top

I briefly dated a guy divorced from a 21 year marriage. We never had sex now he wants to be friends.

I briefly dated a guy who was married for 21 years and his wife divorced him after she had an affair. He has been divorced for 1 and a half years. We dated really hot and heavy for a few months and then he said he could not be in a relationship right now. I respected his wishes and did not contact him after that. He then called me up about a month later and said he really cares for me and wants to keep in touch or be friends. He lives 265 miles away and we were never intimate but we had great chemistry and physical attraction. When his youngest child graduates from high school in two years he plans to possibly move to the city where I live. What does this mean?

- Asked by Female, 36-45
Dating / 11 hours ago Back To Top

Never get married, but relationships are fine..

Will a 26 yr old guy who is adamant that he never wants to get married or have children, ever change his mind on that? He does have a serious gf of a couple years..so its not that he wants to play the field for his whole life... but why would a guy even BE in a serious relationship if he never plans to get married??

- Asked by An Alternative Girl, Female, 29-35, Toronto, Technical
Dating / 12 hours ago Back To Top

So it has been over 4 dates? Is she still really interested?

Ok, so I met this nice girl online. We emailed then talked on the phone. Then met up for a first date. Then progressively went out on a few more fun dates, over the next few weeks. We don't talk or text much during the week but talk for hours on our dates. We kissed on the second date. She even let me stay over one night after a fun night out with her, and nothing happened just a lot of making out. She even suggested next time she wants to come over my place to hang out. So she said she would call me that Sunday and let me know when she was coming over. Didn't hear from her... she apologized in a text and said she was sick. Didn't hear from her at all again for a week... I remembered her favorite soup, so I went and got her some. I left it on her front step, left and texted her that I dropped something off. Finally she called and said "That made her night, and why didn't I knock" and "That was so sweet" and "I will give you a call". It has been a few days and again, heard nothing from her. I got curious and checked out her online dating profile and it showed she was online??? I really like her, and this is very rare for me. I am picky and have dated all the wrong girls. I know if I chase her too much it will scare her off. What the heck do I do, I just really want to spend more time with her and get to know her better. By the way I am 30 and she is 26. I spent most of my 20's dating and being immature. This is the first time I feel this way. It is really ticking me off. Is this girl interested in me? or just playing games?

Update: November 20, 2009.
Called her already. I called her maybe 2 or 3 times over the past 2 weeks. Straight to voicemail, and yes I left messages. Her responses were texts "I will give you a call". Then few days go by- no call

- Asked by A Guy Critical, Male, 29-35, Philadelphia
Dating / 12 hours ago Back To Top

what should i do about it, give space or pressure?!

hey all,

ok i know a girl in my class since 3 months ago and its really going well, she is so nice and funny like me :P, and she knows that i do like her but i havnt said it at all, and im 70% sure she likes me back (why there isnt any 100% for guys in the world! grrr)
because of her actions by teasing, hitting, looking, smiling alot with each other ...

so today i wanted to say to her to confess that and we were alone chatting then i just did it and then she said nothing but smiled and said thanks cuz i metioned the thinks i like in her .

so i didnt hear any answer and the class mates came so i couldn't continue, then she stayed sitting beside me studying and everything was fine..
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this is the most important thing, is that after i told her its like she went in another world not focusing cuz her girlfriends had to repeat the question 2 times so she got it cuz first time she was rly away, then in the class she was also not focused in the class but sitting still and thinking i dunno how to say it!, its like sleeping with open eyes!

and now its week end, so pressure her and talk with her these days or give her space wait for her reaction on monday?

and was that NO from the begining or i cant figer it out now?!

- Asked by Male, 18-21
Dating / 13 hours ago Back To Top

*Prince or a FRAUD? Cold feet.

*My recent boy has been pursuing me from day one. He was the one who asked us to start dating and sets up every date. My dad is coming into town this wknd (He never comes and prob wont meet my guy for a long time after) and my guy is freaked to meet him. His exact words were "Nah, I'll pass, too soon!" After we got off the phone, he said he'll go if I want. It's half hearted. Why is he pursuing this relationship but freaked out to do coffee with my dad and I. Is this sounding shady?

- Asked by beachgirlie71, A Trendsetter, Female, 22-25, Newark
Dating / 13 hours ago Back To Top

Well That's Odd, Michael...

What quirky, cute or unusual habit does your S/O have that you adore? That you hate?

My s/o calls me by full first name which is odd. It's usually shortened to "Tiff". But he calls me "Tiffany" frequently in conversation and I find it odd to hear but endearing because it's uniquely "his" thing.

He has a bad habit of chewing his fingernails and the skin around them sometimes. Those little chewed nubs scrape me sometimes...ugh. Lol

- Asked by thottienc, A Career Woman, Female, 29-35, Charlotte, Who Cares?
Dating / 13 hours ago Back To Top

"she told me she always has a boyfriend"

someone i was considering dating told me she always has a boyfriend. i think she has a guy and when she finds someone more compatible, then she breaks up with the guy she is with. is this common?

the other type seems to be the women looking for "the One" and will go for long periods without anyone while striving for this objective. this type thinks that the first type is "bad" as not being the right way to do it, maybe thats what they were taught as a little girl..

does this resonate with anyone? if you are a woman, which type is closest to matching who you are?

- Asked by Male, 46-55