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Dating / 1 day ago Back To Top

Here's the fastball, NO, it's a CHANGE UP!!! STRIKE THREE!!! GTFOH....

Honestly, I actually laugh at my ex tryin' to win me back. It's pathetic it took her so long to realize I wouldn't have EVER hurt her intentionally.

"You're the standard to which I hold any guy now. If they don't measure up to how you treated me, I don't even bother."

*snicker*

Time for coffee talk..... do you still deal with your ex more than cordially??

- POP'd by king313, A Hip Hop Guy, Male, 26-28, Detroit, Student

Why the heck would he be jealous?

Ok I dont get it.

I lashed out at my ex last night for continueing to talk to me inappropriately. (about sex, he has a longterm girlfriend and he and I are good friends.) He apologized, said he just couldnt help it..he wants to so badly but knows he can't. (And I would never go there, even though I still care for him.)

Anyway, I got SO mad at him..we made up. He told me I need to find a nice guy so I can stop putting up with him. Some kind of guilt trip I guess. I agreed. He said "well then I would be jealous...I should stop telling you to find a guy..."

Why the heck would he be jealous??? He HAS a gf... he left me for her, and seems happy enough with her, it's been over a year. Obviously doesnt want to be with me so why does he care if I get a bf or not?

- Asked by Female, 29-35
Dating / 1 day ago Back To Top

OMG am i losing my mind or what?

A couple of weeks ago a guy and i stopped dating. I initiated the break because i felt i couldnt deal with what was going on. I thought it was best that we reamain friends and at least we could still have that. Well hear is the problem, i was hurt and felt empty at first but got over it. Yesterday I was talking to a guy friend about what happened and it took all of my strength to not drop some tears. I thought i was over this but obviously im not. He is suppose to help me do something today and i will see him. We havent seen each other since the split and now im freaking out. Im nervous, im on the verge of tears, my heart ACTUALLY is hurting right now. Ive been a little aloof with my feelings because of pride and anger. I dont know if i can control my feelings once i see him.

Im angry because i finally met a wonderful man, a man with the qualities i look for in a man that i would like to take seriously and see where it goes, and we cant be together. Dont get me wrong he is not married or anything and is not living with anyone (he is single) but he still has feelings or still in love with his sons mother. I cant deal and wont deal with it. Out side of this he is a great man and father. He treats and treated me like a queen but i cant deal with the situation.

We didnt think we would hit it off so well with each other and he is still a little uncomfortable with seeing me so soon being that his emotions are kinda a wreck also, the thing is he doesnt really know how i feel. Out side of that we were GOLD.


Someone please clue me in on how i can control my emotions without breaking down while with him.

Please help me.

- Asked by thicallover, A Career Woman, Female, 29-35, New York, Administrative
Dating / 1 day ago Back To Top

I don't get it. Why do men like to lead a woman on then not follow through?

I'm confused. We hit it off, then I don't hear from him... after some good conversation and a pretty long makeout session, of touching, squeezing, kissing, biting.. Mmmmm... still, haven't heard from him. I was at his house Monday night, he mentioned a few times things like 'yeah, maybe next time I see you' or 'what are you doing in 2 weeks?' cause he has to go somewhere for out of town, inviting me I guess, so he mentioned it.. little things like that... then when I finally left his house, he texted me before I even got home, saying 'not even a smile on your way home?' cause he said to call him if I wanted to on my drive home, but I didn't.. so he texted me that.. All signs which I thought meant he was into me.. then the day after, I texted him, no response.. the day after I texted again, asking how he was doing, because he has a brace on his knee from an accident.. still didn't respond.. so now I'm confused.. don't know what to think...

- Asked by dolcevita3, An Alternative Girl, Female, 22-25, Student
Dating / 1 day ago Back To Top

A Certain Lack Of Logic.

Do you pick your scabs in the hope that the wound will heal faster?

- POP'd by llafsroh, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 36-45, Boston, Science / Engineering

Why the heck would he be jealous?

Ok I dont get it.

I lashed out at my ex last night for continueing to talk to me inappropriately. (about sex, he has a longterm girlfriend and he and I are good friends.) He apologized, said he just couldnt help it..he wants to so badly but knows he can't. (And I would never go there, even though I still care for him.)

Anyway, I got SO mad at him..we made up. He told me I need to find a nice guy so I can stop putting up with him. Some kind of guilt trip I guess. I agreed. He said "well then I would be jealous...I should stop telling you to find a guy..."

Why the heck would he be jealous??? He HAS a gf... he left me for her, and seems happy enough with her, it's been over a year. Obviously doesnt want to be with me so why does he care if I get a bf or not?

- Asked by Female, 29-35
Dating / 1 day ago Back To Top

My ex-fwb is trying to ruin my future relationships. Help!

I have an ex-fwb guy that is passive-aggressively trying to ruin my potential romantic relationships. We slept together a few times months ago. Ultimately, I wanted a relationship, he didn't, so I ended things. I thought we ended amicably, since he and I still talk on the phone regularly about our dating life. He is definitely seeing and sleeping with other women. Still, it turns out that he is going around, telling guys that I'm interetsed in/are interested in me (he knows these things because I've told him) that we've sleep together. One day, I asked him if I could use his computer. He said I could come over, but he'd be entertaining a guest. I said I didn't want to impose, but he insisted I come over. When I got there, there was a girl in his living room and they were laughing and talking. I politely said hello to her, introduced myself, then excused myself so I could use his computer. A few minutes later, the girl left and he came into the computer room to talk to me. He says "my friend says that you're very pretty. She wanted to know who you were. I said it's complicated."
After he said this, I looked at him perplexed. He and I are JUST friends. Why is he describing our relationship as "complicated?" When a guy describes something as complicated, I immediately think he's sleeping with the girl. We haven't sleep together in months! And when I broke it off, I told him that I would never sleep with him again because I'm done with the fwb thing. He has since been with other people, and is dating several women. Plus he knows I'm dating other people. I don't know why he's behaving like this and it's pissing me off.

Update: November 19, 2009.
I want to add that when I broke it off, he and I did agree to keep our past relationship private. We both agreed not to discuss it with other people and I have kept my end of the agreement. I have told no one about him, and I don't feel the need to because he's not significant. Clearly, he is a man-whore, which is why I ended things. What I didn't expect is that he'd be passive-aggressive, even manipulative, by taking this to another level and trying to hurt my reputation and ruin future prospects. And for what? He's sleeping with other women!

- Asked by A Thinker, Female, 29-35
Dating / 1 day ago Back To Top

broken..............

what hurts most with a breakup........the wasted time......your instincts were wrong about this person......or that this person deceived you......

Update: November 19, 2009.
---------- amazedbygrace wrote -------- That they lied, that they cheated, that they were never honest to begin with..that they want to have sex with you online, over the phone, in person, and all along they love someone else! That is why i sometimes prefer women over men...they rarely cheat on you for another women! sometimes men just have 1 or 2 or 3 or more at one time! why isnt one beautiful women ever enough? your man had it all and so much more..and he threw it all away for what? --- jamiesangel777's Original Question --- what hurts most with a breakup........the wasted time......your instincts were wrong about this person......or that this person deceived you......

- Asked by jamiesangel777, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 36-45, Miami, Self-Employed
Dating / 1 day ago Back To Top

Why the heck would he be jealous?

Ok I dont get it.

I lashed out at my ex last night for continueing to talk to me inappropriately. (about sex, he has a longterm girlfriend and he and I are good friends.) He apologized, said he just couldnt help it..he wants to so badly but knows he can't. (And I would never go there, even though I still care for him.)

Anyway, I got SO mad at him..we made up. He told me I need to find a nice guy so I can stop putting up with him. Some kind of guilt trip I guess. I agreed. He said "well then I would be jealous...I should stop telling you to find a guy..."

Why the heck would he be jealous??? He HAS a gf... he left me for her, and seems happy enough with her, it's been over a year. Obviously doesnt want to be with me so why does he care if I get a bf or not?

- Asked by Female, 29-35
Dating / 1 day ago Back To Top

if a woman is going on internet dates with different guys each night to get a free expensive meal

does this make her a "player"? how would you deal with a woman like this?

Update: November 19, 2009.
MORE INFO: shes beautiful, got an expensevie meal out of me and someone told me she is doing that to other guys too!

- Asked by Male, 46-55
Dating / 1 day ago Back To Top

After four months you break up with a girl and she gives you back EVERYTHING, it's over for good?

I can expect she won't be coming back... ever. hm. ok then.

- Asked by Male, 22-25
Dating / 1 day ago Back To Top

He didn't pay for my dinner when we were out with our friends.

The other boyfriends paid for their girlfriends.
We have been together 9 months.
The checks were all combined and I had to pay for my own. I was so embarrassed! On top of this I had a horrible day at work, and he knew it.
Before you accuse me of being a golddigger, let me just say that it was only $14 (my whole dinner).
I don't think I would mind so much if it happened when it was just us. He's paid for me before. Why couldn't he spring for it in front of our friends?

- Asked by Female, 26-28