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Dating / 1 day ago Back To Top

I talked to this guy two times...

that I met on a dating site but didn't meet in person yet. In our second conversation he asked if when we got off the phone if I could send him a few pictures of myself that I have in my cell phone. He said if I sent him two, he would send me one, but if I sent him one picture he wouldn't send me any. Granted this guy is 34 years old. I thought he was kidding, so I sent him one picture and asked for him to send me one and he wouldn't do it. I already seen pictures off the site he was on, but I decided not to meet him. I just think this is really childish!

Update: November 19, 2009.
Thanks for responding. I just wanted to make sure I wasn't being petty but I'm glad I decided not to meet him. This is how he put it "can you send me pictures from your phone, this shows that I am interested and can't wait to see you" - I was like, "I already know you are interested based on our conversations to meet me"... then he goes, You send two and I'll send one and by that point just wanted to get off the phone. SOOO STUPID HAHA.

- Asked by leogirly7, A Thinker, Female, 26-28, New York, Consulting
Dating / 1 day ago Back To Top

Translate Translate Translate : )

I was asked what does it mean when guy you are dating for while says this often : I adore you you do know that right ?
Is that same as i love you close to it in guy language or its less then that?
Sigh whatever would i say to my girls when they ask me something like this without my AO wise pals : ) i know i would be clueless lol lol lol lol ....

Update: November 19, 2009.
Dalaimama i could not have thought or said it better : ) ...

- POP'd by shygirl1979, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 26-28, Medical / Dental

Ladies, how important are the words "I love you" to you?

What is your philosophy on those 3 words?

In the beginning of a relationship, should the man or the woman be the first to say it?

Even though it is OBVIOUS that he loves you, do you still need to hear it from your man for reassurance?

- Asked by rashaadreggie, A Hip Hop Guy, Male, 22-25, Managerial
Dating / 1 day ago Back To Top

How much is too much???

So on sunday i asked my guy friend what was going on between us and then i told him that i didn't know what was going on between us but that i like him and i thought he should know. He told me he was not sure what this is. so i asked if he had ever thought about about it and he said that he had. i then asked where we should go from here and he said he honestly didn't know. then said I wish i knew life never makes sense.

so i wanna know what you all think. How often is to often for me to talk to him? i kinda wanna give him some space to figure stuff out but then again i miss talking and hanging out with my friend?

oh btw we have talked since but not in person and they were all short convo's

- Asked by dancindiva9, A Creative, Female, 18-21, Winnipeg, Teaching
Dating / 1 day ago Back To Top

I was watching Fatal Attraction and it got me to wondering....

Have any of you ever broken up with someone who just wouldn't take no for an answer?

How did you handle the situation?

- Asked by dalaimama, A Thinker, Female, 29-35
Dating / 1 day ago Back To Top

How Can She Improve Self Esteem?

I have a cousin whom has considerable low self esteem. She's almost thirty and still (she says) can't find a boyfriend. I think the problem is that whenever she meets a guy she feels that she isn't good enough for him(or that his friends will make rude comments about her), so she pushes the guy away to avoid getting hurt.
She is what you call a professional student and is still in school right now. She also has told me she has problems trusting some of her friends (so its obvious she's rather insecure).
I can't explain someone's whole life story here...can you make any suggestion based on this? Thanks

- Asked by Male, 22-25
Dating / 1 day ago Back To Top

Changing a signature from a name to an initial

What does it mean when someone initially signs their name to emails and then later on just starts signing their initial?

- Asked by Male, 26-28
Dating / 1 day ago Back To Top

I need honest opinions

My bf broke up with me suddenly a week ago.
Things suddenly went down hill about a week before he broke it off.
He was not able to give me a reason so I'm clueless why we broke up!
Everyone keeps telling me what a bad person he is because he did this. I'm upset but I dont think he's a bad person and I LOVE him.
My question is, should I try to get him back?
There are books with claims of "proven" strategies to getting your ex back.
Should I buy one of these books or is this pathetic?

- Asked by Female, 22-25
Dating / 1 day ago Back To Top

Do we sometimes ask to be used?

I am currently seeing this guy who lives out of town and is a foreman at a construction site. We see each other a few times a month and text and talk on the phone in between. However, I have made a point of telling him that I am not looking for anything serious. But I feel like whenever he comes to town he treats me like his girlfriend, wanting to hold hands when we are out, always needing to know I am happy and okay. I really enjoy his company and appreciate how caring he is, but I am no where near ready for a relationship, and especially one with someone who is only in town a few times a month. Right now I just enjoy hanging out, making out, and being cared for.

Do you think I am using him? I feel as though I am, because whenever he is in the city I enjoy going on dates with him and hanging out, but when he is gone I am single and carefree. Although I have been honest about it with him, I know he wants more. Should I keep seeing him, or is it completely unfair to him?

- Asked by A Trendsetter, Female, 18-21, Student
Dating / 1 day ago Back To Top

Big Sis Was A Rolling Stone...

Would you date a man your sister once slept with a couple times 10 years ago, though never had an actual relationship with?

Just my luck, I keep meeting these guys that are interested in getting to know me, then I discover she'd been there first. God, she got around...

- Asked by Female, 26-28
Dating / 1 day ago Back To Top

Ex Girlfriend Help!!! Need Advice

So My ex and I split up 3 months ago. I tried talking to her in the past after we broke up and got no response. So I stopped texting her... Anyway now all of a sudden she is texting me here and there and asking how I'm doing and what have I been up to. I still have feelings for her and would give us another chance. She broke up with me. She told me that she needed a break and that she fell out of love with me. And that maybe a break would help her realize what I meant to her.Anyway what does this mean? I figure if she is talking to me now maybe there is a chance or maybe things didn't work out for her. What do you think?

- Asked by A Guy Critical, Male, 22-25, Construction