Hello everybody,can anyone help?

Hello everybody, can anyone help? as young man that just try to dating, what do you think is the best, a young girl like 18-23 or 25-30. I'm 25, what i think if i date a 25-30 girl maybe she will have experience in dating and they will be no problem for me and for she.

what do you think of Asian women?

Is there still hope?

Without getting into all the nitty gritty details. My long term boyfriend and I want to get married but sometimes we have trouble communicating. If we can't work through this issue we both know that this is going to be a deal breaker. He recently again to go to couples therapy with me to try and work through this issues. Is there still hope? I wonder if he is just doing this out of guilt or because of history. But then again if he wanted to leave would he even agree to go???

Update: November 19, 2009.
YES! And I admit it's mostly on my side...I want to do better. I hope things work out. Thanks!

To text or not to text!!

We live in times where some people would rather send a text rather than dial the number and talk to the person.

How would you handle a relationship where he disses you via text?

HAve you ended a relationship via text?

Single mom's recession x'mas gift-giving: S/O has four siblings and I am in a rut budget-wise. Help!

Not sure how I can pull it off...making a good impression without being in the red. S/O comes from a brood of five, and of course I want to give each of them a lil sumthin this xmas. Trouble is, I live from paycheck to paycheck like most people.
I'm very open to suggestions, i'm sure this situation is not all too unfamiliar. Thanks!!!

How can I choose between two guys?

One is my boyfriend and we get along great but he is a really big flirt. He makes me laugh and i like him but we also don't really talk a lot. The other guy is sweet and wants to ask me out but he starts a lot of drama and smokes (which he lied to me about); two things i don't like. However i think im starting to like him. Which should i choose?

How can i choose between two guys?

One is my boyfriend and we get along great but he is a really big flirt. He makes me laugh and i like him but we also don't really talk a lot. The other guy is sweet and wants to ask me out but he starts a lot of drama and smokes (which he lied to me about); two things i don't like. However i think im starting to like him. Which should i choose?

I am new here. ok, so here goes it.

I am crazy about this girl I met at the gym 2 months ago and she is obviously crazy about me. I care about her so much and when she looks into my eyes i melt for her. I want so badly to ask her out, kiss her and hug her and i know she is waiting for me to ask. I can see it in her eyes and she asks me to call her/text her all the time. i don't or when i do its short and cold. the reason: my life is under construction right now and I need to focus on me so I have kept my distance. I am sure she probably thinks i am a player or she thinks i have a girlfriend. she is single and I wants her to find someone who can give her what she deserves.

AM I BEING SELFISH? what is wrong with me??

I thought I could treat her as just a friend by not kissing her, or flirting with her or making her aware that i am so attracted to her beauty(she is beautiful, a one of a kind beauty inside and out) but I don't think I can handle being friends. should i tell her i can't be friends with her, although i know she wants more then that, well darn, that doesn't make sense. "i am sorry I can't be friends with you because I want to be with you as much as you want to be with me, so I am sorry we should probably just go our own way because i am a very stupid man and _______________________ _____________________"

help. this is not funny. wtf is wrong with me.

How do you know that your new current boyfriend doesn't Want you texting him too much?

We have been talking since June and now we are dating. How do I know i'm texting him way too much

Breaking up is so hard.. 2 weeks later, I still miss her. What can I do to move on?

OOC: I'm trying to post this in 'Dating' but it keeps going to Sex & Intimacy.. sorry if this posts there again...

I've been in breakups before (unfortunately).

This relationship was only 4.5 months and it started off great... very physical though. She had just gotten out of a four year relationship.. and we had broken up 3 times (for good reason) and I had dumped her, but she came back. She was verbally abusive to me and manipulated the shit out of me (as I've been told by friends who 'observed' my relationship). Finally after the third breakup she told me she needed space. I gave it. Then we got back together. For the day, everything was fine. She goes home... the very next day she broke up with my via face book. We did argue and some hurtful things were said on both sides. She removed me as a friend on FB and all my friends she met.. blocked me, claimed to have blocked my number... etc, etc... a bad breakup. I've respected her space, etc... when I see her on campus (she takes a class across from my office) we do not acknowledge each other.

...but for heaven's sake, it's been ~9 days since she broke up with me via facebook and I can't get the girl out of my head. wtf...

I've been flirting with an ex who seems still interested in me, but I'm taking that slow.. and immersing myself back in the gym (weight lifting - used to be pretty serious) and have been going out with friends.. I'm not even looking for a relationship or a one night stand. I'll have my good moments, but also my bad ones... right now, as I type this.. I want to scream out and shout how much I miss her.

I know she had a few of the qualities I wanted in my ideal significant other, but her manipulation (as everyone who 'observed' us told me she was to me) and her verbal abuse (she ALWAYS yelled at me - I never once raised my voice to her).. she had been cheated on in the past by the majority of her boyfriends. There definitely was a trust issue with her... but I would never have cheated on her. I didn't. Not even the very thought.

Somehow, she, to play off her mistrust in me, would mildly flirt with this guy (who she JUST met) - and I told her it made me uncomfortable... she let me know that my female friends (of whom I've known for 3+ years) made her uncomfortable...

We haven't spoken for about 2 weeks and I know time will heal this... I gave her back all her stuff and ripped up the love notes she wrote me. I had to - to sever any ties. She isn't right for me. She (through her roommate, a friend of mine) gave me back everything... (gifts, my clothes, etc, etc)...

It certainly is finished and part of me expects her to contact me before the end of the semester... part of me doesn't. Part of me wants her to... part of me doesn't.

This is NOT healthy.