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| Dating / 1 day ago | Back To Top |
Why do ladies assume that if a man can leave, he will leave?For example: take the man that doesn't want, marriage, children or co-habitation. He could leave his relationship any time he got ready to with no real strings attached. That doesn't mean he will or even wants too. Yet every time I've told a woman I don't want these things even if we are in a long term relationship, she automatically assumes I'm waiting for something better to come along so I can up and leave. (has utterly convinced herself in most cases) Even though I've given her NO signs of leaving. When I'm in I'm in till the end. Just my own personal code
- Asked by Male, 29-35 |
| Dating / 1 day ago | Back To Top |
Men please tell me why a man would say this and is there a meaning to it?Your talking to a woman that you have dated recently (mutual split) and you ask if your out of her system and she says yes (you weren't to happy about it but accepted it). Then a week or so down the line you speak to her and you make a reference about you being out of her system ( in a joking way) and she say "well actually your not" . She says that she thought you were and but your not. She says she was just so angry (didnt say it to hurt you)with the situation and thought she was over you. Now she knows she is not.
- Asked by thicallover, A Career Woman, Female, 29-35, New York, Administrative |
| Dating / 1 day ago | Back To Top |
Materialistic things?? Yes or No??A friend of mine argued that if a guy is really into you and really wants to be with you alone (and not ready for marriage) that a promise ring would prove that.
- Asked by pananygirl, A Thinker, Female, 22-25, Administrative |
| Dating / 1 day ago | Back To Top |
Can you really make that promise?I always questioned this: when someone is trying to be apart of your life (significant other), some will say "I will never hurt you" or "I would never hurt you" and there is such certainty in their eyes that you are compelled to believe them?
- Asked by pananygirl, A Thinker, Female, 22-25, Administrative |
| Dating / 1 day ago | Back To Top |
what my lover wrote to his other girl......Hi gracious, , , , and good morning. I didn't sleep much the last two days; cleaning and packing, I really can't deal with this anymore. I will talk to you tonight......
- Asked by jamiesangel777, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 36-45, Miami, Self-Employed |
| Dating / 1 day ago | Back To Top |
In a nutshell, this is EXTREMELY embarrassing.I have a date tomorrow night and she's made it plain that she wants to come home home with me. The only problem with that is that I'm sleeping on a single-sized air mattress until I get a proper bed.
- Asked by bookman, A Guy Critical, Male, 46-55, Seattle, Hospitality |
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What are the rules for giving gifts in a new relationship?Ok, I've recently started a new relationship and 2 weeks in he sends me roses for my birthday. Now, I'm not complaining but I have NO CLUE what to get him for his birthday or Christmas. (His Bday is Dec 24)
- Asked by Schmittatto, A Sportif, Female, 22-25, Cleveland, Retail |
| Dating / 1 day ago | Back To Top |
Would this annoy you? I had actually like this guy until he gave the impression of a jerk.I was casually seeing a guy I met through a friend. We had met a few times before he asked me on the first date. We went out about 5 times after that, and then he stopped talking to me. Every time we went out, he initiated it but I always resonded and accepted (except once when I was busy). After the 5th date, I asked him to get together and watch a movie later in the week if he was available, which he replied "we'll see". And of course I never heard from him again--I let it go, never contacted him for an explanation like some women do--I left it at that. Then a couple months later he texted me out of the blue and apologized profusely for how rude he was, and asked if we could still be friends or "something more". (we have a mutual friend and I know he wasn't even in the state at that time).I accepted his aplogies, but did not reply to the "something more than friends" text. Yesterday (two months after his last contact) I woke up to see I had 4 missed calls from him and a voicemail--a drunken voicemail. what gives? - Asked by A Thinker, Female, 22-25, Student |
| Dating / 1 day ago | Back To Top |
How do you break things off with someone you've been together with for years and live together?I've been with this person for quite a few years. We have lived together for at least 4 years. My heart hasn't been in this relationship for a while, but he is my best friend. Our relationship is more of a convienence. I know it is time to part, but he has no where to go. I don't know how to tell him or what to do. Any suggestions? - Asked by A Sweet Sarah, Female, 36-45, St.Louis |
| Dating / 1 day ago | Back To Top |
Should I break up with her ?Been dating for 2 years, both are in mid 40's. She has 4 kids & I have 1 kid. Everyone gets along fine, but we have major lifestyle differences. We had a brief "break up", and she had sex with another man....now we are back together, but I don't trust her, and I don't think we have a future because of our differences. Plus I have an opportunity to date someone else right now...
- Asked by A Guy Critical, Male, 36-45, Philadelphia |
